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Old 5th November 2009, 1:30 AM   #11
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Hmmm, something came to mind today...what about stuff of yours that they wanted to keep...? I had a USMC sweatshirt that I wore around a lot, and when we had first started dating, she really liked it and started wearing it more and more, until she asked if she could keep it...of course i gave it to her...and then when we broke up, she said she wanted to keep it...

Sometimes I wonder, since she found someone new, did she throw it away...? Or throw it in a box that she'll never pull out again? I seriously doubt that she'd still be wearing it around...or maybe she has come to disassociate that article of clothing with me...or maybe I'm being a twit and thinking too much about it...

But do you ever wonder what your ex does with your stuff that she keeps?
When my ex and I broke up I asked him if I could keep one of his sweatshirts. I loved the sweatshirt and I wore it more than him anyways. He gave it to me and I still wear it. But its one of those sweatshirts that's just super comfy to me. I don't really think to much about him when i wear it, like I said it was more mine then his when we dated lol. I wont ever throw it out. Maybe if it gets a big stain or something and becomes unwearable then I probably will just toss it.
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