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Honestly, I don't think you can blame someone for wanting their partner to remain in shape for them. It's every guys worst nightmare to think that they marry someone and that person lets themself go. Sorry, but it's true.
There is much more to a marriage than physical attraction- but it is a part of it. He's not a jerk-off because it bothers him and he's being honest about it. He hasn't left you - and he seems to support you when you do something healthy and positive.
OP, you seemed to be trapped in a redundant cycle here. You aren't motivated to get back in shape- yet you are resentful that your husband can't reconcile with your weight gain.
I think you have to lose weight
or ...
buy bigger pants- and accept the consequences.
If you choose to be healthy- don't do it because you feel forced by someone else- do it for you.
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