so I guess I'm confussed. She is upset that you were there for her too much? In other words, suffocating her? Or she's upset cause she's not a priority?
Anyway, doesn't matter. Go NC if she loves you she will come to your door with something meaningful, not just, can you help me, bs. Stick to your guns cowboy. If it's meant to be it will be.
She is probably thinking too little too late and that even though things seem to have changed now they might just go back to the old way if we get back together.
But I agree, if she loves me (and I know she does) then she will come back. In the meantime I'll stick with NC.
Thanks. Peace to you too.
ps only downside is that she has convinced herself that things will not change. We shall see.
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Important things in a relationship (in order):
#1.Communication #2.Trust #3.Honesty #4.Love
Truth is that 1-4 leads to the next yet they are all the same thing.
change is a two lane road. you have to learn to meet in the middle. i loved someone but the changes never came and i wore my own soul out putting up with it. put me in a position where i lost my dignity. now i'm free of it and never felt better. i should have never married. but lesson learned. you can't change the inevitable.
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