Wow what a great topic! This is my very first post although I have been "lurking". My Love & I have been involved in a LDR for 8 months although we have known each other since we were 12 yrs old , we are now 42. Actually I was his first gf in 7Th grade. We got reacquinted through Facebook and I swear he is my soulmate. I have been divorced for nearly 10 yrs- he never married. We are 1800 miles apart. His family business keeps him there, my 4 children keep me here. My 3rd child graduates HS in 2011. My youngest is now 12. If my youngest is comfortable w/relocating after my 3rd graduates then I am there. I desired to move to his state even before we began communicating. Otherwise we have to wait 6 years to be together...sounds way too long
If it was indefinate I cannot say for sure one way or another. Over the last 10 yrs I have wasted my time dating and never felt that connection the way I do now. Is he worth the wait- ABSOLUTELY but boy if I never had that promise, the anticipation of sharing our love together....that's a tough one.