[Jersey Shortie]

And I'm not saying every woman who reads and the bible is going to drown her children in the bathtub, but studies have shown...

There is no link between reading the Bible and women drownding their children. You are taking one case and trying to make it a point. There are however statistical facts that prove a link between hardcore porn and men that commit crimes.

What's naive, is thinking that standards are actually being "set" by this porn, thinking that men actually think that reality is the same as porn. I've said it before, but I must say it again. We don't. We don't expect this, we don't demand it, most of us don't even dare ask, as if a little communication is so wrong.

Well, I safely bet I dated more men then you have.

No, we don't all have fixations on breasts, unrealistic looking women, or want women to remain 18 indefinitely.

Sure alot of men do. That's why most mainstream porn focuses on a small set of standards and a limited age group of women.

You've brought that up several times, leading me to believe maybe one of your biggest insecurities is your age. Men like all women, porn does not change that.

I've made no lies about me being insecure about some things. But my insecurties have nothing to do with the subject at hand. You wanting to use it as a personal attack isn't cool. You have your own personal insecurities and I am sure you wouldn't like me to use that as a reason to try and make your opinion less valid.

Actually, we have seen that generation, they're already here. Anyone under the age of roughly 25 has grown up in the age of Internet porn, the age of "hardcore" porn. Nobody that young has ever known any different from it at their fingertips. Where is the fabric of society beginning to unravel due to this? And no, the answer is not in the fact of this type of porn's very existence.

And young men today I find are less respectful of women then older generations. And young men today seem to have certain expectations of women that their older counter parts don't. If you don't think porn hasn't affected the way men view women, the only one who believes that here is you.

Of course, some of them share their critisisms of certain acts, certain directors, companies etc... Some openly admit to being racists, as some think "doing a scene with a black guy is sick". Believe me, they are pretty straight forward.

Light critisms of certain acts or directors has nothing to do with the deep seeded things that go on behind hte scenes. Frankly, I think you actually do buy into the fantasy they pretend to protray. Interesting.

Terrible analogy. Anyway, what it seems you fail to understand so desperately, is that what anyone does with their partner under consent is their prerogative, whether or not you agree with it or see it in the same light as they do. Your opinion simply doesn't matter, and neither does mine.

Of course what people do together under consent is their choice. However, when you take a public media, and you send a big message about how women are treated in it and how much men enjoy it, then that gives every man and owman a right to voice their opinion of it. If you were talking about what goes on between a couple behind closed doors, that is TOTALLY their business. For sure. But we are talking about an open public medium If everyone had your mind set this whole board would never exist.