[Guitarjeff]

Originally Posted by Untouchable_Fire

GJ,

That was overboard on the imagery! If you have not been paying attention, he is getting stronger.

In the meantime... I think your totally crazy. Like kookoo for cocopuffs crazy. You should probably focus on being more.... I guess sane is the best word.

Not overboard at all. On these infidelity boards it's called hitting them across the head with a 2x4. When people do it it's to help them, not hurt them. The imagery was perfect.

In the mean time, it's sad to say someone is crazy without explaining in detail how so and where they went wrong. You run the risk of appearing as if you have no substance to your claim.

[seibert253]

As Guitar Jeff said, some will waffle, cake eate, until BAMM, you smack them in the head.

Mine denied, denied, then denied somemore. Then after confronted tried to minimize. For God sake, she was caught in the backseat of the OM's car by one of my brothers in blue. "we were just talking". In the backseat, do you think I'm that fu#king stupid.

A hard 180, ultimatum, then filing D papers was the smack upside the head that brought her back down to earth.

Sounds like this will be the only thing to work in this case.

Fairly simple. She goes NC, and commits 100 percent to fixing this. Anything else is viewed as choosing the OM. Anything else is unacceptable. File, have her served, and start D proceedings.

[Untouchable_Fire]

Originally Posted by Guitarjeff

Not overboard at all. On these infidelity boards it's called hitting them across the head with a 2x4. When people do it it's to help them, not hurt them. The imagery was perfect.

My apologies! I didn't understand that it was your technique.

I can see that being effective with alot of guys. We tend to be visual folk.

[timbo1]

All good advice you've given me. Thanks again.

We'll see how things go tomorrow. I'm a bit apprehensive but like you've all told me, I don't really have any other options if I want things to progress.

See you on the other side!

[Toodamnpragmatic]

Originally Posted by timbo1

All good advice you've given me. Thanks again.

We'll see how things go tomorrow. I'm a bit apprehensive but like you've all told me, I don't really have any other options if I want things to progress.

See you on the other side!

Good luck. Be understanding, however be firm that you want her back home, NC and want to begin the rest of your life.

BTW Happy Birthday....