[Aksion]

Originally Posted by LisaUk

Why are you jumping the gun? Why a seperation before you have tried to resolve things first? Doesn't the man you married deserve that?

I wish my wife would have thought/felt that way.

Why don't you sit him down and tell him what you're feeling and that you are close to wanting a separation from him. My wife didn't drop any hints, just decided to call/text me while I was heading to work one morning yelling at me and telling me through text that she was leaving.

[Canuck81]

Perhaps a short talk at first.

Things can be said in the heat of the moment you both might regret. Short talk, you leave with a promise to return once you've both cooled down?

[Enema]

No matter what you say he's going to be hurt.

There's no kind of prep you can do to make it easier except to accept it's going to be hard.