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Second Chances Called it off but doubting the decision now? Someone wants you back? Let us know about it!

Old 4th November 2009, 6:41 PM   #1
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Thank you...very good read!

I broke up with my boyfriend in July this year. It's my second serious relationship. I thought it's gonna be easier since I already went through a painful break up with my first but i guess i was wrong. You're right, you have to acknowledge each feeling or emotion and find ways to deal with it otherwise you will be stuck in the denial stage and never move on.

Thanks again...
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Old 6th November 2009, 7:16 AM   #2
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That is something lots of people are hard on themselves about. but the thing is.... your not in another relationship with your ex, your in anohter relationship with a new person. so you have new feelings. its different to your ex. every relationship is new and different with different qualities, dynamics, you love him for different reasons that your ex. so why would it be any easier?

if it was easier you would think that you didnt invest your whole heart into the relationship.

if you fall in love and break up its hard. no matter how many times it happens.

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