good post ecm. it is a huge relief when the lightbulb goes off and you realize the spell has been broken over the ex. i did the same thing as you when i got my heart broken into pieces, sat around depressed all the time. took me about a year of my own personal living hell. than when i slowly startd getting out again, i realized, there are people out there who really are intersted in me! who will give me the 100% i deserve. not just 50%. or 25%. or even less.
now i work with my ex gf (total d*ck). so i have to see her around. she will disppear and then pop back into my life out of the blue, like its all cool again and we are supposed to be buddies. that confused me for quite some time. it extended my misery. now that my lightbulb finally went off, i dont plan on falling for that again. why should i waste one more minute of my time, that i can never get back, on someone who just wants to play games! it is a total waste of my time! period.
good post ecm. it is a huge relief when the lightbulb goes off and you realize the spell has been broken over the ex. i did the same thing as you when i got my heart broken into pieces, sat around depressed all the time. took me about a year of my own personal living hell. than when i slowly startd getting out again, i realized, there are people out there who really are intersted in me! who will give me the 100% i deserve. not just 50%. or 25%. or even less.
now i work with my ex gf (total d*ck). so i have to see her around. she will disppear and then pop back into my life out of the blue, like its all cool again and we are supposed to be buddies. that confused me for quite some time. it extended my misery. now that my lightbulb finally went off, i dont plan on falling for that again. why should i waste one more minute of my time, that i can never get back, on someone who just wants to play games! it is a total waste of my time! period.
The real moment of "haha" will be when she realizes that YOU were the catch, not her. ha ha ha ha. And its too late now!
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I am giving 100% most of the time now I am trying you know. You were right, have done loads with the family and i do feel better about me. Although i have to be honest i haven't shaved my legs for a week cos i can't be bothered cos when its me alone time his ghost lingers.
I am giving 100% most of the time now I am trying you know. You were right, have done loads with the family and i do feel better about me. Although i have to be honest i haven't shaved my legs for a week cos i can't be bothered cos when its me alone time his ghost lingers.
well, then let your hair grow so long that his ghost will stay far, far away.
Good Advice. I can say there are many positive messages on this site, yours included. Maybe someday I can feel that way too. Thanks
You will. I didn't think I would either. Look at al the crappy things going on in the world! People are dealing with way worse, ya know? And when you get back to feeling you'll (hopefully) learn what NOT to do next time.
what if the other person gave 150% but you only gave 50%?
does that mean you get the right to mope!
Yes, of course you do! Everyone has the RIGHT to mope...but look a the question you asked. You gave 150, the other person gave 50. Why, why, why would we mope about THAT?
ps don't get me wrong, I have moped all over town. I just hope for future moping frenzies, I'll be moping over NEW mistakes
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Although i have to be honest i haven't shaved my legs for a week cos i can't be bothered cos when its me alone time his ghost lingers.
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