My, my. Don't we have a temper now?
"Throw a fit"? No, you have misread me- dear. But yes, I was of course challenging you. There is a very cynical, unchecked air in this message board. I took note of before I joined. I noticed a lot of jumping to conclusions and vilifying- with little information given about the relationship, issues, and other person involved gathered. Which is why I attempted to give as much information as I thought necessary for an analysis for the exact problem I STATED.
Which you seem to believe, I have been mostly dependent on him for my "fantastical" information about the country. But alas, I am not going to waste a debate about the conditions, laws, statics, and reports about Iran with you. That is not why I came here, its not my objective.
"If you KNOW that this will end badly for him, then why stay with him? If you HONESTLY loved him then would you not want him to be safe forever? I know that if it were me or life for Mathew I would gladly let him go. I love him enough to want him to live, even if it's without me. And by "life" I don't mean actual living, this could be interpreted as having a life that was recognized by his family as well. If he stays with you then surely, from what you've researched and he's told you he will either die or be disowned."
You raise a good question. But are you really asking me to
help me with my
original problem?
"I know your heart is clouded by illusions." Only if we could all have that type of certainty and confidence about other people as you!
"Now forgive me if I seem
snarky, but I figured that if you can be then I can be too." This last sentence does definitely have a breath of snark. But as for the rest of your reply- I wouldn't use that wording.
Hybrid Mode
