[bbehindme21]

I have been seperated from my ex for about 4 yrs and we have been talkin since. Like friends we talk about everything relationships and all. I mean I have been down there to visit him and he as been up here, but yesterday he called me and told me that he has a baby on the way! Which i thought was exciting b/c i have a 8mth old son but not with my baby's father. And he knew that, and it never changed our relationship, even when i was with the father we still talked no problem. But my question is why didn't he tell me about his girlfriend/baby's mother, she's almost 4mths and that means he's been with her for a while. He even told me they have talked about kids in the future. I mean i told him about everyone i ever dated since him , and there's been no problem. And i asked him why hasn;t he ever told me about this girl and he told me that he was waiting for the perfect moment, what does that mean? And it's crazy b/c we have been talking on the phone like we always do never been a problem, what is going on and why is he still calling me, i never call him, he's always the one calling me !!!!!!!!! I love him to death regardless if were together or not and he knows that.