[gman36]

You sound like a dream come true, believe it or not there are guys who would die to be with a woman like you. someone who wants love and intimacy and romance and to be someones girlfriend. and be very proud of it! just keep your eyes and heart open it will find you. im crushing on you as i speak,

[purgatori]

Your goal is the problem; men are not worth "getting." That said, if you insist on such a silly quest then keep in mind that you have experience that you will be able to draw upon in future, such that you will be better able to determine who is genuine and who is not.