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Originally Posted by Lauralou28
That marriage is not a business transaction but a shared experience?
Going into this marriage he knew that I had needs and that there are certain things in life that one does need to spend on. Did I mention that he makes a six figure salary and I will never make even close to what he makes? I got myself into a bit of credit card debt and he took it upon himself to pay it off for me, silly me for thinking that he was making a nice gesture and helping us both out by doing so.
Now he is under the impression that I should pay him back and constantly brings it up. Isn't that wrong for him to think that with what he brings in? Not to mentioned that
WE ARE MARRIED!!!!
I thought that meant that we shared.... Am I wrong? All my friends think not.  |
I have to wonder what you mean by a "bit" of credit card debt. Then again, the amount may not be the main thing. Did you conceal the debt from him for any length of time? Is this the first time you've found yourself in a financial jam he had to settle? I ask because it seems he is rather resentful of having to pay off your bills. Unless he is just a jerk, he may be feeling deceived and/or used. Maybe you should ask him.
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