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Old 3rd November 2009, 7:52 PM   #1
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That sounds like a good idea but if I do find another girl and my feelings don't chang then I will be a useless relationship that I care nothing about
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Old 3rd November 2009, 8:44 PM   #2
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That sounds like a good idea but if I do find another girl and my feelings don't chang then I will be a useless relationship that I care nothing about
Worry about that if it happens. Focus on the present. Good luck man.
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Old 3rd November 2009, 8:47 PM   #3
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How old are each of you, tym?
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Old 5th November 2009, 7:34 PM   #4
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How old are each of you, tym?
Age is not an issue here
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Old 5th November 2009, 8:26 PM   #5
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Age is not an issue here
Hey, I'm not going to rub your nose in it or anything, or joke or kid you about it, or even be dismissive if you are young (which would in some ways be the greatest insult.) But I need some context - my suggestions would be different if you are a relatively fully-developed adult (20 years or older) than it would if you are younger, and then if you are younger, it would very much depend on what developmental stage you are at.

So you certainly aren't required to reveal it ( I can't imagine why you wouldn't unless you have some sensitivity about it ) but for me, without that context, I can't really give much help. I would give different discussion about an adult situation than I would with a younger person.

But if you don't provide that information, it may very much limit the usefulness of the discussion from which you are trying to benefit.
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