[name witheld]

Sounds like you have some closure then, not meant to be and you will find someone better.

The only chance you have right now is to reinvent yourself in a lot of positive ways, and her somehow getting wind of it. NC alone just isn't enough... sometimes you have to create an environment in which she wants and needs you back.

please elaborate, how can she get wind in NC and what sort of environment do you mean?

[Pfiend101]

Should not have even contacted in the first place. Listen to the people on here of course I though I was an exception. Stay NC let them contact you, if they broke up with you they have to somehow want you back. Nothing you can say or do will make them come back. I didnt do anything to make her leave..... F it.

Im not treating the next one like a princess flowers bringing her coffee up to her work. I just dont give a **** anymore about women. Give them everything and they leave as soon as they have built up their confidence and used up your money.

[mundane mind]

Don't blame the next woman in your life for all the pain the previous one gave you...she has nothing to do with it.

You don't have to change who and what you are because of your ex gf. If you allow that, she still continues to manipulate you. If you are the kind of guy that treats his girl like a princess, keep being that guy. You will find the right girl who will appreciate that.

Learn from the experience but don't lose yourself...

[Weezy]

Originally Posted by Pfiend101

Should not have even contacted in the first place. Listen to the people on here of course I though I was an exception. Stay NC let them contact you, if they broke up with you they have to somehow want you back. Nothing you can say or do will make them come back. I didnt do anything to make her leave..... F it.

Im not treating the next one like a princess flowers bringing her coffee up to her work. I just dont give a **** anymore about women. Give them everything and they leave as soon as they have built up their confidence and used up your money.

This is funny to me. You need to find a happy medium here. I tend to be the opposite.

Being nice to a chick isn't bad, as long as you aren't giving more then you are getting. Women are different creatures. They are more emotional, more nurturing, and they are attracted to men that they cannot control and who won't bend over backwards for them.

In the future, play it like this, trust me, it works. I have the opposite problem that you do.

In a relationship, make sure that they are always wanting a little bit, it's call challenge. All women love a little challenge. Let them chase you a bit and they won't ever dump you..