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Old 3rd November 2009, 6:59 PM   #1
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Ok. I will update my situation for anyone interested out there.

I had promised to myself that I would send him an email if he were to visit my web page again. He did visit my web page yesterday and today I sent him an email and I got a response after only 35 minutes!!!

Anyways, my email was friendly but not overly friendly and I basically congratulated him on his new job and told a little bit about my new job and that was it. It was a very short email.

As I've mentioned before, he got back to me in 35 minutes. The tone of his email was exactly the same as mine, although he was a little more "chatty". He starts the email saying that it's great to hear from me and thanks for my email. Then he says some things about how he once met someone that used to work where I work now and he heard good things about the state I just moved in. Then he starts talking about himself and how he's adapting to his new job. All the conversation is about our professional lives though.

He then thanks once again for my email.


I kind of knew that this would be how things would have turned out, that we would exchange friendly emails. I feel better about myself and about the whole break up thing. It almost feels as if a burden has been shifted off my shoulders. I think I'm closer to finally getting closure more than ever.

I still haven't made up my mind on whether I want to send him a reply. He doesn't ask specific questions but kind of leaves the door open for further exchange. In any case, I don't think I will reply to him right away, as he did. I just wanted to share it with the fellow LS'ers. Thanks for all the support!

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