[torranceshipman]

You were raped...and your boyfriend treats you like this? How dare he!!! He really is acting in an abusive way, in my opinion. It sounds like he is dragging down your self esteem, and a man who loves you would NOT treat you in this way - he is absolutely horrible. You went through something so hard and you really need so much support, and you need to be surrounded by people that love you and care for you, and want the best for you.

What happened to you was not your fault, and you have NOTHING to defend-reading how he makes these demands makes me so incredibly angry. You need a man who loves and supports you, and wants to make it better when you tell him that you are hurting over something. This is NOT that guy. This guy is a bit of a bully, in my opinion.

I'm sorry that you are going through such a rough time but I think the rough times can either a) get worse if you stay with him or b) get better if you leave him.