[Strider]

Well, guess I will start off with background of my relationship. My fiance and I are both virgins, sexually inexperienced before we met each other, in our early twenties. While we dont have vaginal sex, we pretty much do everything else. I, being a typical male, like doing sexual activities, she on the other hand does not find much interest at all. Before we met, she had never masterbated or really thought of doing anything sexual. Since we been together she has tried to masterbate, but does not get any pleasure from it. When we are together she has good feelings when I am touching, licking, etc. her but she has never orgasmed. At first this was not an issue with her, we would do stuff on average once a week or more. But lately she does not have any interest in fooling around and is upset that she is not more inclined to be sexually active.

Through talking with her, I found out that she thought that I was not doing something right. But then she started talking with her sister and her sister told her that she could not orgasm until she figured out what she liked being done to her by masterbating. Makes sense now that my fiance tried masterbating a handful of times out of the blue. Next thing she told me shocked the hell out of me. Since my fiance had the mindset that it was something that I was doing wrong, or not right, she asked her sister if she would "teach" me how to please a woman. Her sister said it would be too uncomfortable for her, I would of probably said the same. Even though her sister is very good looking, it would be weird for me being around her afterwards, that and I dont really desire to be with another woman.

Which brings me to my question(s). What, if anything, could I do to get my fiance more sexually active? Are there any other girls here that have had problems reaching orgasm that could share how they were able to reach it.