[anya85]

So we aren't exclusive--but I feel very certain that it's going in that direction soon. Any way, my issue is that while he's great, attractive, funny and seems to adore me--he's sort of a perv! He's incredibly vocal about things/women/clothing he finds attractive. Not so much real girls out in public(that would *not* be ok), but movie girls, posters, pictures. Going through the video store with him--sort of obnoxious because he's jokingly picking up all the dumb ones without storylines that have half naked women on them.

Literally, it seems like if something can in any way, shape or form be associated in any sexual way, he'll pick up on it and comment. It's *all* the time. I know guys are visual and most of them probably do think this way--I'm just not use to someone bringing it up and talking about it all the time. I guess the guys I dated in the past kept their mouths shut about hot poster/movie/swimsuit/commercial woman.

I know this sounds bad--but really otherwise he's a great guy. He texts me all the time, calls me frequently, makes plans with me several times a week, future-talks about things we'll do together, loves cuddling and handholding, he'd be perfect if he could learn to keep his mouth shut about hot girls! Women don't want to hear that stuff--but especially not all the time. Thoughts?