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My b-friend and I are in great relationship, but some things happened lately that made me really irritated. One is that his female coworker left a message on the answering machine to invite him to "have a walk" with her at the park after work. I replayed the message for more than 10 times, her tone, her intention, etc., were just not right to me. The other is, one of his female friends wants to visit him and stay overnight over the weekend while I will be gone. I totally trust him and I don't think he will do anything intentionally to hurt me, but the idea of a female being along with him under the same roof and staying overnight makes me feel really uncomfortable. I don't want to be over-reacted, but am I too paranoid?