I want this to be a positive thread, a thread to celebrate your accomplishments and personal growths, and even future goals!
Breakups are hard, and can put people in their lowest places, so what's changed since your last breakup? Tell everyone here at LS what you've done to change your life, what goals you've achieved, and how you are a better person. If you want, also list things you have yet to achieve but would like to.
I'll go first:
9 months since breakup, 5 months NC.
- I'd like to start by saying that since my last breakup, I've relocated back to my hometown, and I landed a great job in my field that pays a lot more than any job I've ever had before!
- I've finally gotten active and joined a gym. I've been going for a few weeks now, and I love the feeling I get after a workout! The hardest/first step is taken. I'm also playing golf and tennis in my free time, getting some fresh air and beautiful sun!
- I have quit smoking and haven't had a single drag since the beginning of April. Cold turkey!
- I've reconnected with some old friends that I haven't talked to in years, especially my big cousin who I golf with a few times a month.
There are a few things I'd like to accomplish yet though:
-Increase my gym activity and get into better shape, and lose weight.
-Rid myself of all of my hateful thoughts of my ex.
-Make more friends.
-Be happier with my life in general.
-Buy myself a dream car.