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How do i break the habit of not having things my way?
Ok I've been dating this guy for about 7 months now. I have seen him almost every weekend(with the exception of his family being here for 2 weeks). When he decides that he wants to go out, for some odd reason, i get really upset for him wanting to not hang out with me instead. We get into a argument and i start getting myself into deep **** and saying things i really don't mean. But i should mention, he always changes his mind at the last minute after committing to something. If he says we are gonna get together on Saturday and say today is Wednesday. By time Friday comes he will say "we might have to get together Sunday because i wanna go out saturday". I am always with him on weekends and when something changes i get all bent out of shape.
Is this me being selfish?
Is it me being mad because i don't get my way?
Is it me being mad because of the last minute notification?
Please give me some advice on how to break the habit of not having everything your way and being impatient.
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