[neveragain2493]

I'm upset because of something huge happening today.

I haven't seen or spoken to my dad since I was two.. rather, he hasn't talked to me. It was a bad divorce for my mom, and she went through a lot, but she raised me. During the divorce, my dad lied, followed my mom, threatened to kidnap me..

Today, my dad's sister started talking to me, and I found out my dad had a Facebook, so I added him. She was telling me how much he loved me and how happy he'd be to talk to me again.
I was afraid to tell my mother because I knew it would hurt her.
My mom came home and flipped like I knew she would.. And when she asked if I'd talked to my dad, I said no. I technically had not talked to him. She found out I added him, and she's saying she can't trust me anymore. She's saying I lied. She's all upset, saying my dad's lying to me and feeding me s***, and she says she's not getting any recognition for taking care of me when he is. I know my mom raised me, and I'm old and smart enough to see through any lies.

He is not someone I love. I just want to know him better.

I knew it would hurt my mom's feelings, but if I knew my mom wasn't going to trust me again, I wouldn't have even bothered contacting him.
It just really hurts me. I've been sobbing about this for hours.