Hi, I found this forum while looking for solace. My boyfriend of eight months dumped me a week ago over very confusing terms. Everything had been going well until a week before when we hadn't seen much of each other due to work/uni. His reasons for breaking up consisted of he doesn't think he is in love with me the way he used to be and that he feels I'm more emotionally involved in the relationship than he is. He has also said that we may get back together or we may not.
I'm hoping that he's just confused at the moment (naturally
) but I've used this time to think constructivly about things, and my feelings for him. We spent four out of seven days a week together since we started going out and I feel we may have just spent too much time together and gotten burnt-out. Having said this, I do love him and want to work to overcome this.
He is interested in talking about things, and staying friends. There is no one else (and probably not for a long time, he's assured me) and there have been no major conflicts.
I guess I'm just looking for a different perspective on the situation.
Also, does it mean anything when the guy brings up the subject of thinking of the possiblity of us being married with kids?
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