[shieladas]

I am 35 yrs old living in one country and i married my husband2 yrs back.and he lives in other country.we stayed together for only 15 days in these 2 yrs.My husband had certain misunderstandings with my family at the time of our marriage.He just does not forget or forgive those things.He does not understand the significance of comminication in long distance marriage.He has not made much efforts for my immigration to his place of residence.For the last 18 months he tells me that he has lost all feelings for me.We met once last year for 6 days but during that time he seemed very distant emotionally.
He tells me that his family forces him to continue this relationship.For the last 1 year he is out of job and stressed.My feelings for him have also almost died.At first i used to get hysterical at the name os divorce.But now i feel extremely unhappy in this marriage,so last week i asked for the seperation.He was surprised at that.He tried telling me that i should give it another thought.Although i think i will be unhappy with him but people tell me that we never really got the chance to live together and understand each other.At present i am also extremely unhappy even at this my own decision of leacing him.Are these seperation pangs normal?Do you think that there is any room for improvement in my marriage?