[starlady]

Dating older men with young kids?!?!?!

Hello to all Im new at Loveshack.org and I am still getting used to it. I really needed some advice on a little problem I have.

Im 21 college student and I just started dating a man fifteen years older than me. First off is this normal?? I feel like I have nothing to hide but I feel as he might have a problem with the age differecne.

He has been divorced for a little over two years and has two kids. Im new at the whole love/relationship things but I feel like I love him but I dont feel like he is puting his all into are relationship. I feel like he is holding back things from me. I guess Im kinda confused because his kids consider me as his friend and he has not tried to confront them about me or our relationship. Is this normal?? Should I be concerned that he doesnt want anyone to know about us,especically his kids??

Like I said Im new at the whole realtionship thing because I have only ever dated one other person and it did not go well. So I dont really know how things are supposed to work. We both call each other but on the weekends I feel like Im the one putting forth the effort to get together and hang out with him. what do I do? Am I doing something wrong? HELP!!!



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