[1confusedguy]

Recently my girlfriend (Meg) of 2.5 years told me that she needs "a break." I am so confused right now because she can't give me a reason for wanting a break. She recently graduated from college and got a new job 2 hours away from me. I am still in college and I don't have the time for all of this heartache. She can't explain why she wants a break but that she has a gut feeling to take a break so that she won't have to after we get married. This is the first time either one of us has been is love before and it seems like she wants a break to make sure it is real. Does this make any sense b/c it doesn't to me?

This is where all of the confusion comes in. She said that while she needs a break, she wants to continue talking to me because we are best friends. She swears that there aren't any other guys and that there won't be. She continues to tell me that she still loves me and that she knows we will end up being together.

What I can't figure out is why she wants a break? The only time we have to see each other is on the weekends, so it's not like we are spending a lot of time together anyway. I'm also confused on how we are taking a break since she wants to continue to talk to me on the phone? Nothing is really different between us if we are still talking on the phone.

My girlfriend and I had the best relationship. We never fought, and all of our friends were jealous of the relationship that we had. Meg swears that she has and will remain faithful to me. My heart tells me that this is true but my brain tells me otherwise. I really love her but I'm not sure what I should do. Should i continue talking to her, or should I ignore her calls since she wants a break? I'm also wondering if I should even get back with her once she is ready? Please Help me! What should I do?