[princess75]

I just wanted to know if the following pattern falls into an abusive relationship?
Beign fine with each other, both emotionally and physical...adn after say 2 months without reason the boy changes his attitude and picks up fights which are irrelevant. The gal tries to sovle the problems but he neglects to see there is even a problem, like underestimating her. Then when the gal withdraws the boy again starts behaving nicely.
Then he picks up fights til lthey break up and he starts going out with another gal. Then he comes to the 1st gal and he wants sex which in the end the gal gives it away. Then he is fine with her for 2 days, and then he rejects her again. The gal wants it to work, but rejection comes out of nowhere. The gal does not have the courage to cut strings...how to help this gal? How this gal can help herself? Is this abuse or?