[Medgirl]

Ok, I've been trying for a long time now to get over this problem I have and I'm driving myself insane. I have the most difficult time trusting my boyfriend and I don't know why.

I know that part of it is because I tell myself things like "He's probably out with so and so" or "maybe he's getting back together with his ex", but he hasn't given me ANY reason not to trust him. I know that if I go crazy like this that it will have a detrimental effect on our relationship.

I get so nervous and anxious when I call his house and he's not there. But I don't get anxious any time of the day, I get anxious only when he isn't home in the evening and I have no idea where he is. I know that he has tons of friends that he likes to visit, but it still bothers me. I'm driving myself up the wall.

If I get so anxious about him how can I ever deal with it with anyone else? I never had this problem with my ex boyfriend. What's my problem?