[SportyChick7]

I have a major problem! I have been dating this wonderful guy for 6 months. He is everything I could have waited for, for so long. The saying "too good to be true" rings true with this situation, unfortunatley its not something about him that we can solve, its HIS MOTHER!!

Since day 1 she has not liked me. THere is no reason that she shouldnt like me. I have only wanted to get to know her better and their family. The rest of the family including her mother, my bf's grandmother, likes me! She accuses us of things and is very controlling. He can make his own decisions, but then SHE decides whether or not to put him through crap based on those decisions. He is a very grounded, and independent guy and he will approach and call her on things that are not true about me or him.

I do love this guy, but it is very hard on me emotionally, which i am not highly emotional when it comes to solving problems. SHe has insulted me and doesn't appreciate the feelings her son and I share. Yes we have talked about his issue in depth about her feeling that she's losing her son to me, which isnt true at all, I would hope that she feels like she is gaining a daughter...unforunatley, she treats me with utter disdain every time i go over. I have resulted in not going over to the house any more and he cant move out yet, due to financial reasons!

HELP!!!! What should i do? It's not that he doesnt stand up for me or himself, but she controls everything it seems and its hard to form a lasting relationship with her in the way. RUnning away will not solve the issue, just inflame it!! I NEED ADVICE!! PLease help!