[imjustagirl]

Saturday was the boyfriend's birthday and he said he wanted to spend it with me...long story short, I was stood up so he could go to supper with his friends from work and he said he'd come over around 8:30ish so we could spend the rest of the evening together. Well, he ended up going to "party" with his friends from work. I wasn't invited as he said that I don't like it when he drinks.

Sunday he says we need to "talk."

He comes over and says that he was mad at me for planning a nice birthday and he decided that he wanted to do something with his friends instead of me. He'd been telling me all week that he wanted to spend his "special" day/evening with me.

I told him I was mad that he never even bothered to call...which has been a recurrent issue since he decided in early November that he needed "space"...he still wanted to date, but sometimes he just wants to be alone.

So I explained that if he wanted this relationship to work, that he needed to respect me enough to give me a call saying, hey I know I planned to come over today, but I think I'm going to go hang out with Mike or whatever. Just a little respect.

He agreed that it was "awfuly mean" of him to stand me up like that.

Then he went on to say that he thinks we shouldn't have sex for at least a month or so. He's not sure why, he says it feels great, but it feels wrong.

Does this mean another breakup is iminent?

Any thoughts suggestions greatly appreciated.

~justa~