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Long distance break-up HELP! I want to win her back.
My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year in college, seeing eachother every day and whatnot. But she decided to switch colleges in order to pursue her dream degree. So she is in Hawaii and I am in college in California. We broke up on good terms still friends and what not and talking on IM pretty regularly. Bassically she broke up with me because I stressed her out telling her how much I missed her all the time and was unhappy without her, weak I know. Anyway, she told me the other week that she still loves me, just not as much as before, and that she too has been rather depressed about the breakup for the last few weeks. I really want to win her back in full, because she is a wonderful girl, but I am not sure how to do so. Im stubborn what can I say...just know a good thing when I see it. In fact beforehand we both agreed that we were okay with LDR because we had no fear of loosing each other and would get married after College. I have backed off dramatically quit telling her I loved her and trying to pursuade her to get back together, but I do not know how to truly win her back, since we can't just pick up and go on a date to reconcile or anything like that. Any tips? I really feel like we could work things out if we could just see each other again for a few weeks, but as students we cant just hop on the lear jet you know.
Last edited by MrMephistophles; 29th October 2003 at 11:00 PM..
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