Is it just me that wants good hygiene, clean hands, nice lips etc in a partner

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I take care of my appearance, good hygiene, wash my hands when i get into the house from being out, wash hands after eating, brush teeth regularly, shower everyday etc etc - bascially i like to feel clean and fresh and like to see that in potential partners.....nice clean hands, smelling real good etc the whole works. (of course they also have to have non shallow traits like kindness, morals etc etc). So it always shocks me when guys/girls go for guys/girls that have really horrible hands, bad breath, BO, bascially non clean looking people.

Is it just me? Am i missing something? Don't people take care of themselves? Theres a girl at work that has bad breath and BO, my boss has really bad breath, one of the other guys sometimes smells like ****......and i just can;t believe that they dont; know how bad they smell. Thing is if they don;t sort this then its others that suffer. and telling them could be tricky. i have tried but it just don;t work.

I was also seeing this guy once and he would never wash his hands after coming in. When ever i come in from work or beign out or whatever i wash my hands, freshen up. esp livign in london the amount of dirt........you know what i;m talkign abotu if you live in lonond. Anyway, he wouldn;t even wash his hands before cooking food then it got to the point when i did not want his hands on me. AND THEN he hadn;t washed his genitals and wanted me to perform oral sex on him. I refused adn eventually had to tell him why when he kept pestering me (lol). Then he started to sulk because he i said 'he smells' - well you did..ok!!

I think good hygiene should be taught - don;t parents teach their kids anything. My mom, from when we were kids, made sure that we all had a shower everday without fail, and i'm so glad that she did that. i lvoe feeling clean.

anyway - i just had to have a barney about that