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I dont see why she should really have to change the person who she is
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Why ever not? I am not at all in agreement with this 'people shouldn't change themselves' stuff; at least not the way it's used here. It is correct in your case - you shouldn't have to stifle your views and walk around on eggshells but people who are aggressive, unkind, or have other such flaws should change themselves if they possibly can. And often they can.
I agree that your GF probably has deep-seated personality issues that would take a lot of therapy to change, but her behaviour is not acceptable and therefore it is changeworthy.
Having said that, I still think you should leave. Tell her why and suggest she get therapy and maybe she'll eventually be able to behave in a way that is conducive to having a relationship.
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