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Old 6th March 2004, 2:53 AM   #1
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what us ab on again off again relationship without a break up?

does anyone kno what on on again off again relationships is? i have this chic im trying to get with, and she said she is still with her boyfriend, but it is a on again off again relationship, but she does not breakup with him. now what the hell does this mean?

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Old 6th March 2004, 3:00 AM   #2
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It means she likes the chaos, and thus continues to participate in a cycle of breaking up, and returning, to this guy.

As for what the hell it means, it means stay away. FAR away. And type normally.
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Old 6th March 2004, 4:53 AM   #3
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well she is with this guy and she said she would get with me if she broke up wit her man. but she said she doesnt want to. she also said he treats her good and she has been with him for 2 years. she said its an on again off again relationship, but this doesnt mean she will break up with him. still confused about it though.

help a pal out please,
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Old 6th March 2004, 9:27 AM   #4
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It means leave her alone

It means she's got an ONGOING relationship with her boyfriend...that they go through periods of being broken up, then get back together again.....and it's been this way for a while, she says he treats her good, and it seems clear she's not about to permanently end things with him. So go find yourself someone who is truly single. Don't waste your time on someone who's already in a relationship (no matter how screwed up it is). Why would you want to get with a girl who's already got a boyfriend? You want sloppy seconds?
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