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Forum: Dating 15th November 2017, 3:30 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 667
Posted By Kamille
Since this is turning into a worst date thread. ...

Since this is turning into a worst date thread.

Here is the Tale of Taco Tom.

Met up at pub with a guy I met on OLD. (Strike one: He shows up late because he, he says, he had to stop at the...
Forum: Dating 15th November 2017, 10:12 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,911
Posted By Kamille
I'm sorry you feel let down. It's normal to feel...

I'm sorry you feel let down. It's normal to feel hurt and upset right now. I know it sucks to feel that way.

You'll feel better eventually. In your shoes, I would treat this as heartbreak. Be...
Forum: Dating 15th November 2017, 7:16 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,911
Posted By Kamille
We all face rejection at times. Does it...

We all face rejection at times.

Does it hurt? Yes. It's infinitely better to face that pain and move on than to stay attached. And moving on is about good self-esteem: knowing you deserve someone...
Forum: Dating 14th November 2017, 6:04 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,911
Posted By Kamille
Sure, pay attention to actions: does he ask you...

Sure, pay attention to actions: does he ask you out? Does he go out of his way to talk to you? Nope? Then his actions match his words. This isn't high school. Most people have moved past playing...
Forum: Dating 14th November 2017, 11:03 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,911
Posted By Kamille
Clearly interested? It's obviously not that...

Clearly interested? It's obviously not that clear, else he wouldn't have said: "I like you but not in that way." I think you're projecting your own "non-conventional" relationship here.



She's...
Forum: Dating 14th November 2017, 8:27 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,911
Posted By Kamille
No! Don't do this! Don't keep hope alive. Don't...

No! Don't do this! Don't keep hope alive. Don't analyze the actions of someone who flat out told you he wasn't interested. Move on.

I do want to congratulate you for speaking up and telling him...
Forum: Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy 13th November 2017, 4:04 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 487
Posted By Kamille
I've been in her shoes. I often feel like the...

I've been in her shoes. I often feel like the guys I date use dating to have a social life. I don't. I have a social life and every once in awhile, I date - but I'm therefore less rushed than they...
Forum: Dating 13th November 2017, 3:58 PM
Replies: 85
Views: 2,019
Posted By Kamille
Sounds like a bad joke that didn't land to me.

Sounds like a bad joke that didn't land to me.
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 10th November 2017, 8:21 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 456
Posted By Kamille
He says he loves you and has never been happier. ...

He says he loves you and has never been happier.

You say they often had very heated arguments. With very heated arguments come anxiety and a lot of grand gestures, of the genre: "Here let me...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 9:12 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
My goal is to like the people in my life. And...

My goal is to like the people in my life. And therefore lead a rich life -full of fun - supported by great friends and perhaps one day a great guy.

I have no timeline to get into a relationship...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 9:04 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Ha! If only. Then anxiety and cognitive...

Ha! If only. Then anxiety and cognitive distortions wouldn't exist.

And in the instance of this thread, emotions preceded observation.
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:47 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Again, consider dating only people you trust. It...

Again, consider dating only people you trust. It might diminish the anxiety you've expressed here and elsewhere about dating.

There's plenty of fun to be had out there, and plenty of great people....
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:42 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Again, there's a difference between 1. not...

Again, there's a difference between 1. not trusting someone, considering them liars, duplicitous and evasive and 2. getting to know someone as you decide whether or not they are trustworthy.

You...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:41 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Oh! And this seems like a no-brainer, but just in...

Oh! And this seems like a no-brainer, but just in case it needs to be said:

Don't have sex with people you don't trust.
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:37 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
It's not about him! It's about her and her...

It's not about him! It's about her and her decision-making process.

Why would anyone want to date someone they don't trust, even if just for a casual thing?

Weren't you the one going on about...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:27 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Again, trust is very different from your second...

Again, trust is very different from your second scenario of him suggesting sex. There's nothing inherently untrustworthy about suggesting sex (which, again, is different from pushing for sex #metoo)...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:09 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
There's "not boyfriend material" and then there's...

There's "not boyfriend material" and then there's untrustworthy. Those are two different things.

My basic rule in friendship and relationships is that I only let people who are trustworthy into my...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 8:00 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Untrustworthy, but not in a terrible way? ...

Untrustworthy, but not in a terrible way?

I'll vote there is no such thing. Not dating people you think are untrustworthy is like basic dating 101.

ES said it took her 6 months to extricate...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 7:11 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Holly ****ing **** for the love of all that is...

Holly ****ing **** for the love of all that is good, ES please stop seeing him.

You don't trust him! Why would you keep seeing him??? Take responsibility for yourself, please!





And you...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 5:46 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
You offered full transparency? No you didn't. You...

You offered full transparency? No you didn't. You weren't honest about why you wanted to add him on Facebook. You were also not honest about why you were canceling the date.

Listen, as I said, if...
Forum: Dating 9th November 2017, 6:40 AM
Replies: 101
Views: 4,262
Posted By Kamille
I have question Brokenheartedman Does your...

I have question Brokenheartedman

Does your girlfriend know you are struggling with this? If she does, what does she say?
Forum: Dating 8th November 2017, 7:48 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
I just noticed you said I defended him. I...

I just noticed you said I defended him.

I in fact went out of my way to say I didn't know him from atom and that I had no way to know whether or not he's a good guy. At most, I gave alternative...
Forum: Dating 8th November 2017, 3:09 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Apology accepted. My point about getting to...

Apology accepted.

My point about getting to know people to let them earn your trust instead of preemptively trying to decide whether or not they're trustworthy still stands.
Forum: Dating 8th November 2017, 3:01 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
I don't recall saying that. I was smitten...

I don't recall saying that.

I was smitten with a guy last spring, but he wasn't a love bomber.

More importantly: I don't blindly trust people. I get to know them. Try that sometime.
Forum: Dating 8th November 2017, 1:39 PM
Replies: 310
Views: 10,784
Posted By Kamille
Funny, I never "got played". It's actually not...

Funny, I never "got played". It's actually not something I worry about. You know why? Because I take my time getting attached.

I honestly don't understand the level of anxiety you displayed...
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