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Forum: Second Chances 21st February 2013, 12:01 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,338
Posted By 0hpenelope
As tough as it sounds, your situation sounds like...

As tough as it sounds, your situation sounds like how dating should go: you find out you're not compatible with her (him for the ladies), you move on and find someone else who has A, B, C, D, E. ...
Forum: Coping 1st February 2013, 1:44 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,945
Posted By 0hpenelope
She looked for a 1.5 year old post. Really?...

She looked for a 1.5 year old post. Really? :rolleyes: How old is she? This is what some high school and college-aged students do. Another check for "age means nothing when it comes to pettiness...
Forum: Second Chances 31st January 2013, 11:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,815
Posted By 0hpenelope
Nope. Even if they think he's an idiot and if...

Nope. Even if they think he's an idiot and if they're correct, -as painful as this reads and I don't mean to rub salt on open wounds, OP - he decided that the break up was the right decision for...
Forum: Second Chances 4th January 2013, 6:22 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 894
Posted By 0hpenelope
What's she going to do about missing you though? ...

What's she going to do about missing you though? She can feel it, but she's only been sending texts. She can regret moving on, but she's still with her boyfriend*. Not much for you there, except...
Forum: Second Chances 16th December 2012, 10:48 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,079
Posted By 0hpenelope
Thanks, Bryant. :) We'll see if I'll have...

Thanks, Bryant. :) We'll see if I'll have anything to report back on that since, I've said before, communication is very sporadic with us (as in, he doesn't initiate contact, which isn't unfamiliar...
Forum: Second Chances 15th December 2012, 5:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,079
Posted By 0hpenelope
You got your answers from him, Bryant. You sound...

You got your answers from him, Bryant. You sound like you're in pain from disappointment, but you tried. Sometimes it's the kick in the butt to get on with moving forward that we need.

Things...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2012, 11:58 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 1,854
Posted By 0hpenelope
Just go. You'll be fine. :)

Just go. You'll be fine. :)
Forum: Coping 17th October 2012, 9:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,629
Posted By 0hpenelope
Just a lot of love and positive thoughts to you,...

Just a lot of love and positive thoughts to you, Sedge. Nothing about this is easy... You are a beautiful person and your accomplishments are tremendous. You've always had my respect. :)
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 15th October 2012, 7:12 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,893
Posted By 0hpenelope
"So much negativity- is it always the end?" ...

"So much negativity- is it always the end?"

I don't think so. It's just that the relief of getting over the painful break-up is much more worth it than staying stuck in hoping. Reconciliations...
Forum: Coping 15th October 2012, 5:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 559
Posted By 0hpenelope
We say a lot of things out of anger and when...

We say a lot of things out of anger and when we're hurt by a person. It's hard to choose the opposite - which is to stay silent, ignore, whatever - when you're really, really upset. You have regret...
Forum: Coping 15th October 2012, 4:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 559
Posted By 0hpenelope
I think you should just let yourself be angry. ...

I think you should just let yourself be angry. It'll pass too. It's a good reminder of why you're not talking to him and why it's not a good idea to talk to him at all and why NC is a good choice...
Forum: Second Chances 26th August 2012, 11:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 8,844
Posted By 0hpenelope
That's really sensible of you, OP. You learned...

That's really sensible of you, OP. You learned from your break up. It hurts not to be with the one you love, but if you end up being with him (or even with someone else), holding back and the...
Forum: Coping 23rd August 2012, 9:46 PM
Replies: 12,932
Views: 1,594,226
Posted By 0hpenelope
Explain? Don't make a request like this of me...

Explain? Don't make a request like this of me again please, I can get really long and wordy. :laugh:

Joking aside, I mean that I'm not angry anymore. I'm not sad. I'm free from anxiety, wanting...
Forum: Coping 23rd August 2012, 12:32 AM
Replies: 12,932
Views: 1,594,226
Posted By 0hpenelope
What a difference a full year makes. I wish...

What a difference a full year makes.

I wish this on everyone.
Forum: Coping 23rd August 2012, 12:28 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,113
Posted By 0hpenelope
I mean... you can reach out, you know. You can. ...

I mean... you can reach out, you know. You can. It's just that you have to ask yourself "How much is this contact going to be worth?" Because if they left, they did it because it was the best...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 23rd August 2012, 12:15 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 4,981
Posted By 0hpenelope
Short, sweet to the point. Your past with him...

Short, sweet to the point. Your past with him has a lot of pain, but I think that you not holding on with a grudge and keeping your wits about you with your approach is testament to your character. ...
Forum: Second Chances 15th August 2012, 2:41 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 900
Posted By 0hpenelope
Contacting her friends is a bad idea. You're...

Contacting her friends is a bad idea. You're going to place people in an awkward position and she will not change her mind about the break up if you do this because you were willing to involve...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 15th August 2012, 2:33 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 4,981
Posted By 0hpenelope
Oh man, I just had to comment because that's one...

Oh man, I just had to comment because that's one heck of a message for a person to send and, for you, to receive. It was very thoughtful and he invested time in writing it... You don't have to do...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 13th May 2012, 9:45 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,109
Posted By 0hpenelope
"Not yet."

"Not yet."
Forum: Coping 21st April 2012, 2:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 990
Posted By 0hpenelope
I read this too, and I'm female. I took it with...

I read this too, and I'm female. I took it with a grain of salt, but some of the participants seemed to have a conscience and some treated it like a business and others... well, it was just an...
Forum: Second Chances 21st April 2012, 1:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,803
Posted By 0hpenelope
Don't send it. You'll regret it.

Don't send it. You'll regret it.
Forum: Coping 21st April 2012, 1:51 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 506
Posted By 0hpenelope
Bumping this.

Bumping this.
Forum: Coping 17th April 2012, 1:18 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 10,692
Posted By 0hpenelope
I think what she meant to say (sorry if I'm...

I think what she meant to say (sorry if I'm speaking for you, OP) is when the person is over the anger and hurt towards the break up. I will again, if I may, speak from my experience.

With my...
Forum: Coping 17th April 2012, 12:41 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 10,692
Posted By 0hpenelope
I broke NC surprisingly. I've been good with...

I broke NC surprisingly. I've been good with other exes since I remember they didn't really take care of me during the relationship and afterwards, but this one... he's good. I've already mentioned...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 16th April 2012, 6:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 491
Posted By 0hpenelope
Keep your cool, immitable. You have an in. At...

Keep your cool, immitable. You have an in. At least you two are talking and you're not crumpled up about things still, you know? If you want to engage her like this, you'll need to be patient. ...
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