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Forum: In Search Of... 9th October 2017, 1:50 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 3,610
Posted By SwordofFlame
As someone who had no success with dating in...

As someone who had no success with dating in college, I vehemently disagree.
Forum: In Search Of... 9th October 2017, 1:41 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 3,610
Posted By SwordofFlame
I don't think you're going to get any solutions...

I don't think you're going to get any solutions online because none of us can observe what you're doing or not doing. All we can go by is what your perception is of who you are and what you're doing....
Forum: In Search Of... 8th October 2017, 4:56 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 3,610
Posted By SwordofFlame
OP, your posts are filled with contradictions. I...

OP, your posts are filled with contradictions. I think the problem is that while you may be doing the things people are telling you to do, you're not doing them well enough or often enough, the...
Forum: In Search Of... 8th October 2017, 1:14 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 3,610
Posted By SwordofFlame
I'm going to guess that you're giving off too...

I'm going to guess that you're giving off too much feminine energy so to speak. Perhaps in the way that you carry yourself, your mannerisms, your hobbies and interests, the fact that most of your...
Forum: In Search Of... 1st October 2017, 2:39 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 3,610
Posted By SwordofFlame
Have to agree here. For some reason, you don't...

Have to agree here. For some reason, you don't seem to do well with the college crowd. I had the same problem. Didn't have any luck with women until I graduated and had a good career going. I know...
Forum: Dating 29th September 2017, 2:46 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 878
Posted By SwordofFlame
I'm a sports fan, I enjoy both watching and...

I'm a sports fan, I enjoy both watching and playing. I never thought being one really impacted my chances positively or negatively with women though. OP, what's your rationale here? What's the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 27th September 2017, 2:14 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,563
Posted By SwordofFlame
I would say a thin body with some meat on her...

I would say a thin body with some meat on her hips and nice smooth legs do it for me. I'm not too picky about the face.
Forum: Dating 27th September 2017, 2:06 PM
Replies: 894
Views: 31,750
Posted By SwordofFlame
He already sounds like one of those friends who...

He already sounds like one of those friends who you'll have to push and prod if you want them to hang out with you. Are you prepared to be the friend that will always have to initiate and make plans...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 7th September 2017, 6:37 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 634
Posted By SwordofFlame
20s with roommates is the norm for high cost of...

20s with roommates is the norm for high cost of living cities like NYC. You have to be doing pretty well financially or living somewhere not so convenient to not have roommates.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 7th September 2017, 4:50 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,574
Posted By SwordofFlame
As a natural introvert that's good at acting like...

As a natural introvert that's good at acting like an extrovert for limited periods of time, I don't think the problems you are having is related to him being an introvert. You say that the reason he...
Forum: In Search Of... 7th September 2017, 4:31 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 5,428
Posted By SwordofFlame
I think it's a stretch to say that you won't find...

I think it's a stretch to say that you won't find anyone but you do need to be realistic about who you can attract though. If you can only attract those that you find unattractive, than you really do...
Forum: Dating 5th September 2017, 1:04 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 2,021
Posted By SwordofFlame
Seems like you two have a lifestyle compatibility...

Seems like you two have a lifestyle compatibility issue. She's the type of person that has to be busy doing things all the time. It doesn't appear you are anywhere near the same. I dated a woman like...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 31st August 2017, 2:57 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,162
Posted By SwordofFlame
I don't think most guys have the thought process...

I don't think most guys have the thought process of "can I get someone hotter"? But instead have a binary decision making process. "Do I find her physically attractive or not?" However, men can...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 31st August 2017, 2:18 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,600
Posted By SwordofFlame
I can't understood why a successful career woman...

I can't understood why a successful career woman with a high paying job would have a preference to only date men that earn even more? I mean you already earn enough money....right?
Forum: Dating 31st August 2017, 2:05 PM
Replies: 894
Views: 31,750
Posted By SwordofFlame
So are you willing to overlook possible red flags...

So are you willing to overlook possible red flags & dealbreakers if it's due to some issue(s) that he has? If indeed he does have these issue(s). Or are you hoping the issue(s) are fixable?
Forum: Dating 31st August 2017, 10:24 AM
Replies: 894
Views: 31,750
Posted By SwordofFlame
OP, are you open to just having a fling with this...

OP, are you open to just having a fling with this guy? I think you already know he isn't relationship material.
Forum: Dating 30th August 2017, 10:26 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 343
Posted By SwordofFlame
Well if you believe that men are the gatekeepers...

Well if you believe that men are the gatekeepers to relationships and women are the gatekeepers to sex, than the woman should be the one to initiate the relationship talk and the men initiate sex.
Forum: Dating 29th August 2017, 12:40 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,246
Posted By SwordofFlame
I've been on countless dates with med students...

I've been on countless dates with med students and they all predominantly talk about their work and studies. It really consumes their lives unfortunately.
Forum: Dating 29th August 2017, 10:35 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 1,128
Posted By SwordofFlame
This varies greatly from individual to...

This varies greatly from individual to individual. You should just follow your own rules and if the guy doesn't agree with it, than you're not compatible.
Forum: Dating 26th August 2017, 5:30 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By SwordofFlame
Go with guy #2 since it appears he is making time...

Go with guy #2 since it appears he is making time for you. Well at least he did when he spent 20 consecutive hours with you. Guy 1 doesn't seem like a good person. He's probably the kind of person...
Forum: Dating 24th August 2017, 10:08 AM
Replies: 894
Views: 31,750
Posted By SwordofFlame
Just like relationships that move "too fast"...

Just like relationships that move "too fast" often fail, so do relationships that move "too slow".
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 23rd August 2017, 3:29 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 2,552
Posted By SwordofFlame
This is a good point. The interests and hobbies...

This is a good point. The interests and hobbies of my current girlfriend are just going out to eat at different restaurants with her friends and traveling. Two things I would happily do with her. She...
Forum: Dating 23rd August 2017, 2:24 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,404
Posted By SwordofFlame
Have to agree. Why do some women feel like...

Have to agree. Why do some women feel like there's an obligation to like the man if he's nice and treating her well? Is it really THAT hard to find a man that is both attractive and nice? Being nice...
Forum: Dating 23rd August 2017, 2:21 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,188
Posted By SwordofFlame
Tell her you're not interested and if she makes a...

Tell her you're not interested and if she makes a fuss about treating you, pay half.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 23rd August 2017, 11:43 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 2,552
Posted By SwordofFlame
Are you sure those aren't lifestyle differences?...

Are you sure those aren't lifestyle differences? I agree that lifestyles need to be common.
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