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Forum: Dating 8th January 2013, 12:46 AM
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Thank you for the advice. This is probably the...

Thank you for the advice. This is probably the best advice yet. I have noticed a pattern of being "a day late and a dollar short" frequently too, because I tend to overanalyze everything. I need to...
Forum: Dating 7th January 2013, 6:46 AM
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Posted By 063rneb
This is more or less my exact philosophy, I have...

This is more or less my exact philosophy, I have concluded that the only thing I have to fear, is fear itself, and that the only way to be sure I will be hurt is by not allowing myself the chance not...
Forum: Dating 7th January 2013, 12:46 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
Well the problem is likely one of trust, because...

Well the problem is likely one of trust, because I've been able to have sex - and initiate it - just not with somebody I care deeply about. I haven't even kissed or held hands with someone I care...
Forum: Dating 6th January 2013, 8:25 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,484
Posted By 063rneb
A girl you're interested in doesn't introduce you to her new boyfriend

Does this usually mean "I don't want you to treat me as though I'm officially off the market," especially if you've both been interested since before they started dating, or "I hate you so much I...
Forum: Second Chances 6th January 2013, 8:19 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,380
Posted By 063rneb
Contact first love after "all those years," because of regret/apology?

So after scrutinizing my past, trying to uncover the reason behind my failures at romance, I keep unwillingly coming back to the horrific encounter I had with my first love. The emotions are just as...
Forum: Dating 6th January 2013, 7:58 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
This is what I'm looking for. The other issue, is...

This is what I'm looking for. The other issue, is when would it be appropriate? After emotional investment is obviously made on both accounts?
Forum: Dating 6th January 2013, 7:55 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
Right, so being emotionally guarded =...

Right, so being emotionally guarded = introversion = social anxiety = impotency etc. etc. etc. I can see you are one of the more insightful members here. :rolleyes:
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 5:56 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 5,135
Posted By 063rneb
This isn't a perfect world, neither isn't an...

This isn't a perfect world, neither isn't an option. Life usually gives us a choice between two unappealing options, it's part of being an adult. My contention to fading, is that it is a double-edged...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 5:24 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 5,135
Posted By 063rneb
Perhaps the women in this thread who lament...

Perhaps the women in this thread who lament should ask yourselves this: would you rather have a man who implodes on you and tells you some mean things and then goes away. Or would you have somebody...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 3:58 PM
Replies: 96
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Posted By 063rneb
Unfortunately, "ignoring" somebody can play into...

Unfortunately, "ignoring" somebody can play into the "hard to get" mindset and backfire sometimes. Also, I have much more respect for somebody who takes a "random" approach to someone they are...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 3:45 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 5,135
Posted By 063rneb
The emboldened part was actually sarcasm, meant...

The emboldened part was actually sarcasm, meant to explain what actually happened, which was in direct refutation of what this particular woman said. Actually, my response was to never talk to her...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 2:50 PM
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Posted By 063rneb
Any other input?

Any other input?
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 2:48 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 5,135
Posted By 063rneb
Um, it's not only men. The words "emotional rape"...

Um, it's not only men. The words "emotional rape" come to mind. Nobody likes to be rejected, especially when they've been rejected on the basis of insipid mind games/dating rituals/rules and not on...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 1:24 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
I think the hardest part of it is that most...

I think the hardest part of it is that most people probably couldn't comprehend it, and will get the wrong idea and still try to help you along. It doesn't work that way, and I can see how they'd...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 1:17 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
Well, I DIDN'T want to have an emotional...

Well, I DIDN'T want to have an emotional connection recently, but it happened anyway, because I found out the hard way that you cannot prevent love from developing if it is meant to be. You can,...
Forum: Dating 5th January 2013, 1:03 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
That is true, but I wish it was that simple. In...

That is true, but I wish it was that simple. In the current situation, it's a coworker I've known for a year now. Short story is, we were attracted to each other pretty much from the beginning, and...
Forum: Dating 4th January 2013, 11:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,010
Posted By 063rneb
Communicating emotional guardedness to someone of interest?

So I've come to the conclusion, through researching the concept of being "emotionally guarded" and reading the same story in several articles/archived threads (which is how I found here) that it is...
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