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Forum: The Other Man / Woman 7th December 2017, 11:13 PM
Replies: 460
Views: 25,130
Posted By jenkins95
Well what a hero!! (Rolls eyes) Come on...

Well what a hero!! (Rolls eyes)

Come on niteandfog, he denied involvement TO SAVE HIS OWN ASS! Surely you see that?
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 6:35 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,833
Posted By jenkins95
(((BreakingWave))) I remember your posts...

(((BreakingWave)))

I remember your posts from a few months back and often think about you.

PLEASE repeat, re-post, vent and sound like a broken record as much as you need to. Don't shy away,...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 12:22 PM
Replies: 460
Views: 25,130
Posted By jenkins95
I just want to say that I agree wholeheartedly...

I just want to say that I agree wholeheartedly with midnight blue's post. I say this as an MM who developed feelings for the OW, became obsessed, fell in love, etc, etc.... all the usual c*ap......nd...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 12:02 PM
Replies: 113
Views: 6,245
Posted By jenkins95
Amen to that Birdies. I'm another one whose been...

Amen to that Birdies. I'm another one whose been there and got the t-shirt :(

Good luck OP, you've said some very encouraging things in your recent posts. Wishing you the strength to go NC and...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 28th November 2017, 2:43 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,146
Posted By jenkins95
There may be some truth in what you say here and...

There may be some truth in what you say here and I find that debate an interesting one.

But the fact is, this particular man discussed in this particular thread DID sign up for it - his choice. If...
Forum: Infidelity 21st November 2017, 11:13 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 7,681
Posted By jenkins95
Just wanted to take a moment to comment on this...

Just wanted to take a moment to comment on this post. aliveagain, I have often admired your posts from afar, but never knew your full history before. This is so shocking to read. No one should have...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 21st November 2017, 10:10 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,833
Posted By jenkins95
(((Vivir))) I really feel for you - that was...

(((Vivir))) I really feel for you - that was traumatic and must have left you feeling very emotionally fragile and confused. The ripples will last a few days, but you'll get past it and good for you...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 20th November 2017, 6:04 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,514
Posted By jenkins95
Amazing thread. I relate to so much of what has...

Amazing thread. I relate to so much of what has been written here. I will be back to contribute a lot more, but don't have much time now so will just comment on the above.

I'm very sceptical when...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 3:21 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 733
Posted By jenkins95
Wow, thank you! But I thought what you wrote was...

Wow, thank you! But I thought what you wrote was brilliant - it really spoke to me!

I am really rooting for you alsudduth. You seem like such a lovely, genuine person and I feel your vulnerability...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 10:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 665
Posted By jenkins95
Hi Nikki I'm glad that posters aren't...

Hi Nikki

I'm glad that posters aren't immediately taking the "just divorce him" approach, which we sometimes see. There is some good, sound advice here.

To me, this...



...and the fact...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 8:02 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,126
Posted By jenkins95
Some very touching stories on this thread. It is...

Some very touching stories on this thread. It is wonderful that people can find happinness again after the heartbreak of losing a life partner.

This really made me laugh: -



This is the...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 7:34 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 733
Posted By jenkins95
Hi alsudduth I find this thread very moving...

Hi alsudduth

I find this thread very moving and I am extremely impressed at how you are working to make the best of yourself, your marriage…and especially your family. I truly applaud you for your...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 4:29 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,126
Posted By jenkins95
Just wanted to share a little anecdote that this...

Just wanted to share a little anecdote that this thread reminded me of.

In the 1990s, my wife and I went on holiday to Sicily and visited a beautiful rural church one day. In the graveyard, an...
Forum: Infidelity 11th November 2017, 4:31 AM
Replies: 55
Views: 8,627
Posted By jenkins95
OP, I'm sorry to say, as a former cheater myself,...

OP, I'm sorry to say, as a former cheater myself, I agree 100% with Blues. I would almost bet my house on the fact that he slept with (at least) her.

You have both screwed up, but actually, if...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 10th November 2017, 9:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 510
Posted By jenkins95
Brilliant post! We all change and we all...

Brilliant post!

We all change and we all show love in different ways and this may change as we go through the stages of life. We all have a past.

Bottom line, your H has never been happier!
...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th November 2017, 5:16 AM
Replies: 460
Views: 25,130
Posted By jenkins95
Hello again ((niteandfog)) I know you are...

Hello again ((niteandfog))

I know you are getting a hard time here and you probably feel you are being ganged up on by the LS members. Know that it is only because the posters speak from...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 10th November 2017, 4:19 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 510
Posted By jenkins95
Hi (((Jane))) I completely understand how...

Hi (((Jane)))

I completely understand how you feel and it must have felt awful in so many different ways to discover and go through that stuff from his previous relationship.

But personally, I...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th November 2017, 12:12 PM
Replies: 460
Views: 25,130
Posted By jenkins95
It does indeed feel like much of the advice on...

It does indeed feel like much of the advice on this thread is falling on deaf ears. Regarding the MM, the OP seems smitten like a teenager. The issue of ending her marriage seems secondary to her...
Forum: Infidelity 9th November 2017, 11:55 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,966
Posted By jenkins95
Oh yes please. Great idea :)

Oh yes please. Great idea :)
Forum: Infidelity 9th November 2017, 11:54 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,966
Posted By jenkins95
Excellent post from wmac. She is coming from the...

Excellent post from wmac. She is coming from the former betrayed spouse angle and I feel that what she says is very much aligned with what I am saying from the former wayward spouse angle. I like the...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th November 2017, 10:30 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,508
Posted By jenkins95
Good luck scout. You've been to hell and back -...

Good luck scout. You've been to hell and back - but you're still here! And getting stronger and wiser every day. Keep going - it does eventually get easier, but it takes a while. you will get there!...
Forum: Infidelity 9th November 2017, 9:52 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,966
Posted By jenkins95
I really applaud your honesty and openness here...

I really applaud your honesty and openness here Brad. You are admitting that you have been selfish, that this thing has changed you and taken you away from your family, and also that you are addicted...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th November 2017, 5:40 AM
Replies: 460
Views: 25,130
Posted By jenkins95
It's not always as black and white as simply...

It's not always as black and white as simply grooming you for sex and then taking it as soon as he can. It could be possible he is playing a bigger, more sophisticated power game. Gaining your trust,...
Forum: Infidelity 9th November 2017, 5:07 AM
Replies: 108
Views: 9,966
Posted By jenkins95
Hey Brad I'm late coming to this thread as...

Hey Brad

I'm late coming to this thread as I've been away for a while, but I notice that a few of the earlier posters suggest that I may be able to help as I was in a similar position. I'd be...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th November 2017, 4:28 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 4,659
Posted By jenkins95
Good for you Poppy - this is wonderful to read!...

Good for you Poppy - this is wonderful to read! Seems like we've both shed several pebbles from our sack of rocks since we last exchanged posts! I'm so pleased for you Poppy.
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