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Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 6th January 2016, 1:33 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Thank for the replies and I know I need to give...

Thank for the replies and I know I need to give up on trying so hard to understand this or it will drive me crazy. He is currently at his very first apt with this new therapist and psychiatrist. I...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 6th January 2016, 12:10 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
This just keeps getting better. Advice is anyone...

This just keeps getting better. Advice is anyone has any because I am not understanding this.

I just got off the phone with a male friend of mine that happens to also work with my ex.
Yesterday...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 5th January 2016, 7:50 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I am super nervous. He has his apt that is being...

I am super nervous. He has his apt that is being forced on him by his Dr for basically an evaluation with a therapist and psychiatrist tomorrow. This is suppose to be a 3-4 hour apt. He just picked...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 4th January 2016, 7:01 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
The nastiness is back today big time. He actually...

The nastiness is back today big time. He actually called not text but called and yelled at me and called me every name he could think of because he had an issue at work with a day that he has to take...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 8:51 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Good thing was I went at 5 and picked up my son...

Good thing was I went at 5 and picked up my son and told him I had a ton of things to finish before tomorrow and had to get dinner and the look on his face was almost priceless. Then he said well...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 5:59 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Oh ok now I understand. But to my credit he...

Oh ok now I understand. But to my credit he picked up our son Friday and I only sent one message to our son and that's it. Until this exchange.

Thanks, I will work on that. I was trying to see...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 5:36 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Itspointless, No I do not think I can fix him. I...

Itspointless, No I do not think I can fix him. I think everything I have read on this disorder basically says that.

What do you mean by I showed him he still has cords on me to pull?

I truly...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 5:15 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
ok guys, I will probably catch some flack for...

ok guys, I will probably catch some flack for this and it might be well deserved and please feel free to fire away at me

Ex came home about 10:30 Central time this am. I was taking garbage to the...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 3:49 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
itspointless- I have 6 children with my ex...

itspointless- I have 6 children with my ex husband and one with my now ex bf. I am and have been in therapy. My marriage was a struggle but I tried hard to make it work.

I was on BC with an IUD...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 10:26 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I really appreciate your responses and please...

I really appreciate your responses and please note that I am going to discuss this with my psychiatrist whom I have been going to since I moved here in 2011. So he knows me quite well. He respects...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd January 2016, 12:31 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
ok more more question before I try to sleep but...

ok more more question before I try to sleep but will he just stop all of this? just on his own say no more like he has and be done. split me black permanently so to speak or will this go on until I...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 11:59 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Also, I have been trying to find good articles to...

Also, I have been trying to find good articles to read and the nursing one will be great bc well I am currently in my second year of nursing school.
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 11:54 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
No way was I going to even mention this to him. I...

No way was I going to even mention this to him. I know better than that. He would flip so fast. I know he is a great guy I have experienced it. He made me feel special and actually does great nice...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 10:41 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
sorry to keep posting I am just trying to keep my...

sorry to keep posting I am just trying to keep my sanity right now my heart rate is in the 140's whew...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 9:58 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I actually have that list too I just didn't want...

I actually have that list too I just didn't want to flood too much because I am really freaking out.

1. Black and white thinking. Him in a nutshell. Nothing is grey
2. yes he always says that I...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 8:59 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I guess I was prepared for something I could...

I guess I was prepared for something I could handle and now I am just a total mess with a panic attack
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 8:35 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I made a list of the 12 differences and he hits...

I made a list of the 12 differences and he hits BPD on everyone.

He picked up our son yesterday and I haven't heard from him since which is weird bc he always texts something.

yes, I meant...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 5:57 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Downtown, Thank you so very much for the...

Downtown,

Thank you so very much for the very thoughtful reply. I had came across the Borderline Personality Disorder by accident while trying to research this Bipolar stuff just in case he is...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 1:55 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Right now I have no choice as we have a court...

Right now I have no choice as we have a court order. I know his brother's wife and I am betting our son was in her care. But he goes to sleep at 600pm so I am sure he put him down in a pack and play...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 1:17 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
Both of you are very right. I need to untangle...

Both of you are very right. I need to untangle myself from this and NOT get back involved.

justanotherguy1- we have an almost 9 month old son together and he has a daughter that will be 18 in...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 11:29 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
kgcolonel, thank you for the response and I...

kgcolonel, thank you for the response and I believe me I do my best to protect our son. We have already gone to court on this issue when things were better between us and he wasn't swinging so wildly...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 10:19 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
justanotherguy1 Now he's putting so much...

justanotherguy1
Now he's putting so much pressure and blame on you simply put, he is dissapointed at himself and his life. Thats how i see it though.

Why else would he constantly make...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 10:13 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
oh kidm, you are asking me questions I ask myself...

oh kidm, you are asking me questions I ask myself now and cant believe I just chose to either ignore the signs or to believe the stories I was told to explain them.

Such as his situation with his...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 2nd January 2016, 10:05 AM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
justanotherguy1, you are pretty much on target....

justanotherguy1, you are pretty much on target. He reels me in and we have these deep discussions about the future of our family and then BAM........nothing. I have been tossed back out to sea. He...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 1st January 2016, 9:23 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,131
Posted By G8trgirl
I just cant understand the back and forth with...

I just cant understand the back and forth with things almost every 2-4 days. One day I am his world and his best friend and the next he just wants to focus on his job and our son. He is very...
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