Ahurtgirl Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 When it ends and you are in love with your AP, it feels like your world is coming to an end but there is hope. It takes a very long time but things will get better. I've lived through it and time really does heal a broken heart. If you are in the depth of the pain from the end of an affair, please give yourself time to mourn the loss and pamper yourself as much as possible. Sleep, eat right, cry, get angry, be jealous that he stayed with his wife, etc., and allow yourself to go through all the emotions you need to so thay you can heal. You fell in love with a married man, you didn't plan on that ever happening, and you now got burned in the process. Once you realize he wasn't worth all the tears and see him for the selfish person he is, you'll be thankful he stayed with his wife. She'll have to accept that she's married to a forever cheater but you get the chance to be free and find happiness. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
oceansaway Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 YOU ARE SO CORRECT! They lie and cheat...not what I want in a partner Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 If you are in the depth of the pain from the end of an affair, please give yourself time to mourn the loss and pamper yourself as much as possible. Absolutely. Retail therapy worked for me. Shopping for new clothes to fit me after all the weight I lost getting my heart ripped out of my chest... that helped. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 When it ends and you are in love with your AP, it feels like your world is coming to an end but there is hope. It takes a very long time but things will get better. I've lived through it and time really does heal a broken heart. If you are in the depth of the pain from the end of an affair, please give yourself time to mourn the loss and pamper yourself as much as possible. Sleep, eat right, cry, get angry, be jealous that he stayed with his wife, etc., and allow yourself to go through all the emotions you need to so thay you can heal. You fell in love with a married man, you didn't plan on that ever happening, and you now got burned in the process. Once you realize he wasn't worth all the tears and see him for the selfish person he is, you'll be thankful he stayed with his wife. She'll have to accept that she's married to a forever cheater but you get the chance to be free and find happiness. Happiness will come in many forms after you get over xMM. Your daily mood will be stable, no more secrets and you will open up to all kinds of relationships that you wouldn't have considered before. XMM was such a huge presence in my world that I almost shunned everybody else. Now I find that people are approaching me to offer friendship because I am no longer hurrying off to get a call or see MM somewhere. Life goes back to how it was before . Poppy. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
BTDT2012 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 Glad to see you are in a better place. Link to post Share on other sites
misspalmy Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 i still think of him like i do with other people i dated. only think i dont want him Link to post Share on other sites
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