Aurum79 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) Hey guys! I've been thinking of men's acceptance and even enjoyment of female homosexuality and their wllingness to participate in a threesome with their girlfriend and another girl. But then I asked myself how would those same men react if their partner has a sexual act with another girl without their participation? I've heard some stories of men cheating on their girlfriends with other men which of course is taken badly and seen as something basically wrong. But is it the same when things are reversed and the girlfriend is the one who has fun with s.o. of her own sex? Edited August 31, 2015 by Aurum79 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 It all depends on the people involved. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 It would depend on a few things. Sex only would be OK, as long as the OW was clean & it wasn't on "our" time. An emotional relationship would be a deal breaker. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Goodbye Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 Cheating is cheating. If the wife was open with the H that she wanted to have sex with a woman and he was ok with it...well then, that is an open marriage. Or, if she was ok with him watching/participating...that is a consensual threesome. Going off and having sex with another PERSON is cheating. I had a brief relationship with a woman after my marriage was over, but had I started it during the marriage, that wouldn't have been ok. Just because it is different than standard fare affair doesn't make it any less of an affair, in my opinion. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
NewLeaf512 Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 I've been considering replying to this post and decided it was merely a joke of some kind. Then I saw the replies and just in case someone might not see this for what I believe it is, let me rephrase: Are we talking about a horny man who "catches" his wife engaged in a sexual situation with another woman, decides to join in, and the women move over and they all get it on in a threesome happily ever after? That's not reality that's your porn fantasy. If you are talking about a M in which the WW has an affair with an OW and the H finds out and let's it continue because "it's hot" then objectification of women and as cheating is still cheating. If the WS and AP are the same sex and the BS finds out, it would be worse. Now the BS doesn't only have the pain of betrayal from the A but possibly the whole marriage was a sham. Barbaric. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Aurum79 Posted September 1, 2015 Author Share Posted September 1, 2015 No, homosexual relationships are not part of my eroric fantasies and no, the post is not a joke. It was just a question that poped in my head. I just thought of a hypopthetical situation in which, there is a man who would enjoy it if his gf plays with another girl in front of him, so I asked myself if such a man would mind it if she does the same without his presence. Maybe it was a stupid question, however Anyway, thanks for the opinions shared Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 No, homosexual relationships are not part of my eroric fantasies and no, the post is not a joke. It was just a question that poped in my head. I just thought of a hypopthetical situation in which, there is a man who would enjoy it if his gf plays with another girl in front of him, so I asked myself if such a man would mind it if she does the same without his presence. Maybe it was a stupid question, however Anyway, thanks for the opinions shared It's funny you mention this, I found myself in a situation very much the same, Except she's just a fwb, so no obligations exist between us other than honesty and blame, As hot as it would be were I present for the activity, I appreciated the truth, even if it's a bit whack, If she were my girlfriend, however, i'd feel differently because it went down behind my back. Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 I know a couple who were together for 11 years - and when it was discovered that she was cheating with a woman - they broke up. He was not stoked about it - didn't fill any porn fantasies in his head, rather made him question is masculinity. Link to post Share on other sites
deadelvis Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 it depends on many factors. if they discuss it with the husband/BF first it's not cheating. I've allowed all my GF's to have sex with other women. Sometimes I'm there, sometimes I'm not. Sometimes I'm passed out on the couch, sometimes I'm having sex with them both... But it's always something I've given permission for them to engage in. But anything sneaky or dishonest is not okay. However I have a caveat that I don't want them doing things with "butch" lesbians. For some reason that doesn't sit very well with me, maybe because it's too much like another man in the bedroom. Link to post Share on other sites
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