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Hey Guys,

 

Recently one of my and my gfs mutual friends Missy bought her a book of sex stories for xmas.My GF has been with me for 10 years, and I was her first. Her friends know this.

 

I was a little freaked but didnt think much of it. Then a friend who mixes a lot asked me if I was bothered by the gift. I said no. She replied "even though missy is bisexual" ? I didnt know this, but pretended I did, and acted cool with it.

 

That night my gf and I were ****ing, and she asked if I ever have fantasies I am ashamed of. I said yes, and she said not to worry, she loves lesbian porn but it doesnt mean she wants to be with a woman.

 

Anyway, next day I noticed that here underwear (very sexy) was new. The next day I found a massive dildo in her draw (9.5 girth by 8), lubed up and obv used by my gf.Along with it was also a lot of feminine but sluttish style new underwear.

 

That night my gf wanted to read the sex story book before we had sex. I got angry and asked her to put it down. She accused me of beign jealous of anyone she hangs with. I said no, I'm only jealous of missy.

 

She said I was silly and asked if I thought something was going on with Missy. I said I wasn't sure but that it was inevitable that they were going to have sex. She turned away from me, and didnt answer that. She simply said asked why I was so upset about the book. I asked who got her the sexy underwear (Im letting her keep the dildo secret) and she said missy.

 

She told me to stop being stupid, that girls buy each other underwear and things like the book and that I was a prick. She still wasnt looking at me and I said to her - "do you think missy hasnt got off on the idea of the kickers she bought you being covered in my cum and your pussy juice after a good hard ****??? Do you honestly think she hasnt ****ed herself sensless over that - she is bisexual you know"

 

My gf said I was probably right but she had been niave. I then told her that Missy wanted to **** her and hard and she looked at my gfs body the way I do.. I vaguely hinted that missy had talked about my GF in a very sexual way to me (my gf didnt question this, even though I made it up). My GF admitted that Missy was slightly attracted to her and she knew it but it was too slight to matter.

 

She then said she had been very niave and felt she was being groomed by Missy, and that I should be angry as it was no different than a guy wanting to bed her. I said I had resigned myself to the fact that they fancied each other too much to stop it happening (I made this up but she didnt question it) other than to say that she felt manipulated.

 

She never looked at me during this conversation. I drifted off to sleep, and she woke me to say she was nipping out. She wouldnt say where. I discoved she had left her phone, and had called missy just before she left (missy must not have answered). My GF was back very quickly with takeaway and nothing much was mentioned other than she said I was very selfish to tell her that missy wanted to bed her, as she felt awkward around her.

 

I checked her other phone today and discovered a lot of messages between them. None that were exactly wrong, but borderline:

 

"hey Missy, gonna go to bed soon, but having a read of that book in the bath first xx"

 

"hey GF, good to see you for lunch today, you looked really good, glad to see you are making an effort for me"

 

"Hey missy, thanks to the book ghands made me come twice last night. Thank you so much"

 

 

My GF has also said that Missy is very kinky sexually, but will not tell me how as it is nothing to do with me, and that they do talk about sex a lot, but all that missy knows is that I am good in bed"

 

Basically, are they lezzing, preparing to lez, or can I tip things over the edge" My gf is so sweet I cannot believe what is going on. I cant understand why she called Missy after our argument, or left the phone there where I could see she had called missy. She didnt go and see her ...

 

Please guys, I realise this sounds messed up - but I want to know - are they lezzing already or is my gf looking for permission. Why didnt she answer when I said Missy was bi (something I shouldnt know), or that it was inevitable they would shag?

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The only thing that doesn't really make sense is that she would leave a lubed up dildo laying around. Doesn't she know to wash it before she puts it away? She could really mess herself up by not cleaning it (well, I might add) between uses.

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Impossible to say what is going on between them, or in process of starting.

 

Your other option is to see this as the BEST opportunity in the world, for you to start spicing things up with your g/f.

She is obviously in process of reducing/eliminating some or all of whatever sexual inhibitions she may have had -- hop on board before it is too late for you to share and explore WITH her (and without other women or men.)

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The only thing that doesn't really make sense is that she would leave a lubed up dildo laying around.

It makes sense if you suspect this post is wank fodder and not real at all.

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It makes sense if you suspect this post is wank fodder and not real at all.

 

Exactly. Is this real? Why waste the effort and make it up.

 

If it is real then then I'd say yes your girl is curious and yes you should treat this the same as a guy moving in on your girl. A lot of guys will hoot and hallor about how they dreamed their girl would do this but the scary part is this Missy seems to be turning your girl. No different than a guy would. Does it mean Missy thinks you are weak, maybe. Maybe not. Don't give ground to this or it's a losing battle. Spice things up with your girl. If she is curious then bring in a ringer, not Missy, and have at it lol. Deprive Missy of any satisfaction in trial 3-some. Yes I said 3-some because you better make it very clear that you will be there and you will be active with both of them. See how she likes that. If she can deal with you making the other girl cum and her then you can deal with her wanting another girl in the first place.

 

What sucks is you seem to like her and just her. Some girls just don't get it.

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Hey guys,

 

Thanks for all the advice. Eveything is sorted now.

 

I talked with GF last night. Or rather she brought up the fact she wants to do Burlesque dancing but doesn't have anyone to go with.I went through all of her friends apart from Missy. I then mentioned Missy and she said that she really wanted to know if I was ok with her going with Missy now that I know Missy wants to have sex with her. I said I was ok with that.

 

She told me she has no attraction to women at all and that she feels it might be wrong to go Burlesque dancing with Missy as it would be like leading her on sexually.My GF says she finds the idea of Burlesqe dancing very sexy but would want to be uninhibited with her body,and that would be cruel to missy. She said that if they had Sex Missy might develop deeper feelings for her.

 

She said she was happy for us to fantasise about sex with Missy but that she doesnt have any interest in being with a woman. She then said I needed to tell her any fantasies I had about her and Missy which I did. She said she would be dissapointed if I wanted to have sex with Missy or found her attractive. I dont so thats cool.

 

 

She then told me a fantasy of her and Missy having sex whilst she masturbated. She came very hard, and when I asked why, she said that she just replaced my name with Missy and told me what I wanted to hear. She said she also had a fantasy of me forcing her to have sex with boyish blond haired girls. I asked if she would like that and she got very angry and said that they were just fantasies and she would never want them to happen and that she has no attraction to girls - the fantasy is for me.

 

Finally she told me of her fantasies about some of our male friends and explained that having sex with Missy would be no different.

 

I'm glad I know she has just been doing this to turn me on. She says she is more than happy to fantasise about Missy but I must understand she says Missy for me, but is imagining me in her.

 

I think everything is resolved now, but I really appreciate the advice guys.She has explained that these fantasies are just that and can never happen in real life and we can never have sex with other people - which I am fine with.

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