Lizzie60 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 I broke with this MM about 3 years ago.. we kept in touch through emails.. mostly jokes.. he had never asked me out since.. but today he sent me an email saying he wanted to take me for dinner this coming Wednesday. I said I had plans.. and that I don't think I want to go there anymore.. I had to be polite.. the truth is that he's not that good of a lover.. he's one of the oldest I had.. and I think he was taking viagra when I was seeing him... Anyway... he was joking.. saying he would take a shower and wash his hair that day or at least the day before.. and he would take me for dinner ONLY... nothing more.. Hummm.. yeah right... I just can't seem to get rid of my exes... (he's the one who once told me that I must 'hot iron stamp' the men.. cause they can't stay away from me. I also haven't slept with my MM from work since May... I told him that I had a bf.. (which is not true).. I just got tired of him... but I need to keep him around cause he 'feeds' me with confidential stuff from management meetings. He shows up at my door every now and then (I hate that) after work to talk... he respects my 'choice' ... I guess I'm 'downsizing'.. .. getting old.. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 I just can't seem to get rid of my exes... Yep I've have a couple of those popping out of the woodwork lately too. It seems that telling them you're not interested has the opposite to desired effect Link to post Share on other sites
Agent_99 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 I think it is that hard to get thing. I came out as a lesbian last year, and since then I get more attention from men than I have in my entire life. BUT only after they find out I am a lesbian. ~99 Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 That's funny. My ex-husband referred to me as his 'other wife' shortly after he remarried. I told him that if he wanted to continue to draw breath, he'd never say that in front of his new wife. Our son tells me 'dad still talks about you leaving him and I tell him, 'just get over it already....it's been 15 yrs!' I told MM once that some guy that I used to date turned out to be a nutcase and he started the stalking thing. So, MM asked, "Did you sleep with him?" and went on to say that I was very good in bed and that would make any man nuts. I thought that was absolutely hysterical, especially that look on his face that implied he was on the verge of going nuts. Men.... Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Is the "MM from work" your "young MM" that didn't know about all the others? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 22, 2008 Author Share Posted November 22, 2008 Is the "MM from work" your "young MM" that didn't know about all the others? Nope.. the MM from work is 47.. my young MM is 25... my MM from work think I have one bf.. (he has absolutely no clue about my lifestyle and all the other lovers, but I tell him when I have flings on my vacations... he asked.. ) My young MM knows about me.. but not everything.. He has never questioned me about anything. He minds his own business.. he's sooo sweet.. Link to post Share on other sites
LakesideDream Posted November 22, 2008 Share Posted November 22, 2008 Nope.. the MM from work is 47.. my young MM is 25... my MM from work think I have one bf.. (he has absolutely no clue about my lifestyle and all the other lovers, but I tell him when I have flings on my vacations... he asked.. ) My young MM knows about me.. but not everything.. He has never questioned me about anything. He minds his own business.. he's sooo sweet.. Lizzy with such a bounty of riches at your behest, you may need to take a management class to learn how to handle them all. I think you are priceless ! BTW.... I'm WAY to old for you, the youngsters have all the luck in your neck of the woods! Link to post Share on other sites
grogster Posted November 22, 2008 Share Posted November 22, 2008 I hear ya, woman. I'm on hiatus, and I quite enjoy the break. Don't force it. If the passion's not there, don't pretend. You know and your men know that you're a great lover. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 22, 2008 Author Share Posted November 22, 2008 Lizzy with such a bounty of riches at your behest, you may need to take a management class to learn how to handle them all. I think you are priceless ! BTW.... I'm WAY to old for you, the youngsters have all the luck in your neck of the woods! They're not all rich.... but they all live comfortably.. I don't know how old you are.. but I have to be honest and say that I prefer younger men.. I am very well aware that this won't last forever.. I'm getting older ... so, for now, I have to enjoy that 'privilege' to the fullest.. I have to say that I'm blessed..and every day I thank my guardian angel for the extraordinary life I have.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 22, 2008 Author Share Posted November 22, 2008 I hear ya, woman. I'm on hiatus, and I quite enjoy the break. Don't force it. If the passion's not there, don't pretend. You know and your men know that you're a great lover. Thanks Grogster.. I wish you were closer.. Link to post Share on other sites
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