LOVE DAISIES Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 How did your MM react when you called it off? Did they try to get you back? Use the same excuses??? Did they respect your wishes? How did it end up?? Link to post Share on other sites
DogMetal Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 can you list the 'same excuses'? I'm curious to what they are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LOVE DAISIES Posted March 20, 2008 Author Share Posted March 20, 2008 LOL.... "It's complicated"... "I'm here because of OBLIGATION "she'll keep the kids from me"....... "I don't really want to be here"............ "It won't always be like this"..... "This is not where I want to be".... AND ON AND ON......................ETC..ETC.......... Link to post Share on other sites
Gwyneth Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Me: "I can't deal with you or your issues anymore. Leave me alone." Him: "FINE, whatever." Me: "Okay, fine. Bye." Him: "Fine, Byeeeeeee." [click] Next day: Him: Intense staring Me: Intense ignoring and avoiding [sends me a text message...] Him: "I miss you already." Me: "Me too." Kiss Kiss, Hug Hug...four more weeks...same routine all over again, = pathetic, really. And this happened about four or five times too in a five month period, so that's about one time per month...if you know what I mean (that time of the month). Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 How did your MM react when you called it off? Did they try to get you back? Use the same excuses??? Did they respect your wishes? How did it end up?? At first he tried to accept it (the first time)...but he loved me and couldn't go more than 24 hours w/o contacting me...I didn't go back until he said he'd told her it was over and would leave by the end of the year... Then I pre-empted his end of the year promise when we got into an argument and asked his intent...He said he coudln't do it by the end of the year...I said then I am done... Guess what? He did what we needed to do and we are happily living together... You must be strong and sure in order to get what you need...Because people will treat you the way you let them... GEL Link to post Share on other sites
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