milx Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 We were in the same baking class. She invited me over to her mother's house to bake some cookies for this old folk's home. So we baked and baked. Then after months of baking, I realized I always feel... different when I am around her. When she bent over to take the cookies out..... . It wasn't like love at first sight. No. I took the time to get to know her better. What she likes, dislikes. Things that make her happy and sad. We exchanged a lot of opinions/insights on alot of things. We both love to cook and bake so most of the time, we would spend time talking about that or actually baking and cooking. Then we started spending more time together. I started fantasizing about her! I freaked out. I promised myself I would never get my heart broken again by another woman but I can't help myself. Turned out she feels the same way about me! Thing is..... she is married. I met him at a convention. I was sent there by my company. It was a 3 day event. The first evening, they had a get-to-know session. I was approaced by a gentleman who was almost perfect in terms of looks. Almost of someone that came out of a TIMES mag. I tell you, it was a business convention so of course everyone was in suit but this man, he made my kitty moist just by standing there, talking and nodding his head. We spent 3 days together. Nothing sexual happened. We talked alot about business, as I am planning to open my own bakery. He seemed to be interested in helping me out with the porposal. He told he is married. Ok. Of course that made me think twice about having anything with him. I can't do that. I tell you, it broke my heart when he told me he is married. So, we went our seperate ways the last day of the convention. We exchanged business cards earlier so he has my contact details. During those 3 days, I can't stop thinking about my married woman. I was missing her dearly. I am here because I need to let out my feelings. My story is not the same as anyone's. I believe everyone's stories are unique. Mine is unique and complicated. Nothing like Avril Lavigne's song! Ok - ok. I am here to ask what am I getting myself into? I know this is complicated and I need to end this but I love being with both of them. What am I to do???? Link to post Share on other sites
pythonshoes Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Well, that is a bit complex. What would your MW think of you having another relationship? Oh, and did she know you were Bi before you got involved? It sounds like you're fantasizing about being with both. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Well, that is a bit complex. What would your MW think of you having another relationship? Oh, and did she know you were Bi before you got involved? It sounds like you're fantasizing about being with both. Yes! My new visitor. It is complexicated. My married woman doesn't know I am having another relationship. I cannot tell her. She would stop buttering me muffins! I tell you this, she knows everything about me except my relationship with a married man. This story is even more complicated when I get into more details. She knows I am a bisex. She has no problem but I know she expects me to be only with her. No other woman or man. I fantasize about them both. All three of us together! Is this forum R rated??? Link to post Share on other sites
pollywag Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 So what's it like to be stuck in the middle of that from an emotional stand point it must be so strange to hear stories about each other and yet you are dating both. That's so messed up!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 I tell you, it's BEYOND messed up!!!! Imagine hearing bad things about your married man from your married wife. You know married man is nothing like what she said. I get headaches almost every other day when she was putting him down. Like I told you on the other thread, I despiced the man she created. On the other side, my married man didn't say anything bad about his wife, my married woman. The only thing he said about her was that she spends too much time with her friend. Guess who the 'friend' is! What's it like? From an emotional stand point? It's emotionally draining! I'd rather have that human sandwich you mentioned. Less complicated, I tell you! Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 So you prefer to lick the bowl than jerk the meat right? Who licks the bowl better, the MW or the MM? I am so curious about this stuff Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I'm sorry but I'm having a hard time comprehending your situation. Are you actually telling us that you're seeing both a man and woman and they are both married to each other? They both don't know you're seeing another person?? Wow. I thought I have read it all on this forum! Btw, you do know there isn't such a word as complexicated, right? Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I'm sorry but I'm having a hard time comprehending your situation. Are you actually telling us that you're seeing both a man and woman and they are both married to each other? They both don't know you're seeing another person?? Wow. I thought I have read it all on this forum! Btw, you do know there isn't such a word as complexicated, right? Anything is possible. This is nothing compared to what I have heard from friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 So you prefer to lick the bowl than jerk the meat right? Who licks the bowl better, the MW or the MM? I am so curious about this stuff MW - Married Woman... now I get it! Thanks. It was tiring typing all that out. I tell you, MW can lick the bowl very well. She loves licking the spatula when she's done whipping a mix, don't know if you know what I mean by that! I tell you, I am lucky. Very lucky! Why are you curious? I'm sorry but from your name, I am assuming you're a man? Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Off the top of my head I have a friend who said she straps on one and gives it to her H because he loves it! He actually asked her to do it! I know another couple who are into the swing thing. Another couple I know both have lovers and are completely aware of the situation. I'm sure these stories are not even tipping the ice berg. Thousands more I am sure! Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I'm sorry but I'm having a hard time comprehending your situation. Are you actually telling us that you're seeing both a man and woman and they are both married to each other? They both don't know you're seeing another person?? Wow. I thought I have read it all on this forum! Btw, you do know there isn't such a word as complexicated, right? When you get yourself into my situation, you will hear the word complexicated. You will come up with alot of other words! That is how complex and complicated it is. See. I tell you, my situation makes me crazy but I'm enjoying it. At the same time, I tell you, I should stop. This isn't right. One day I am buttering muffins and another day, cleaning pipes. Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 MW - Married Woman... now I get it! Thanks. It was tiring typing all that out. I tell you, MW can lick the bowl very well. She loves licking the spatula when she's done whipping a mix, don't know if you know what I mean by that! I tell you, I am lucky. Very lucky! Why are you curious? I'm sorry but from your name, I am assuming you're a man? Yes I am a male. I am hetro but love to watch two women making out. What man doesn't? If they say no, then they are full of it. I like it when two women work on me too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 I want a human sandwich. I tell you, it has been on my mind for quite a while now. I don't know how long I can hide one from another but I know both will be surprise to know that I am involved with both!! MW is thinking of taking a break from her husband. MM wants to work it out. Can you imagine the chaos? One wants out, another wants to make it work, their other woman wants to do them both at the same time! Link to post Share on other sites
pythonshoes Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 I tell you, it's BEYOND messed up!!!! Imagine hearing bad things about your married man from your married wife. You know married man is nothing like what she said. I get headaches almost every other day when she was putting him down. Like I told you on the other thread, I despiced the man she created. On the other side, my married man didn't say anything bad about his wife, my married woman. The only thing he said about her was that she spends too much time with her friend. Guess who the 'friend' is! What's it like? From an emotional stand point? It's emotionally draining! I'd rather have that human sandwich you mentioned. Less complicated, I tell you! Wait, wait! How is it that you and MW H aka/MM are in the same business? how did that happen that you were at the same conference? Holy Moley, I'd have liked to have seen your face when he told you who he was! Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Wait, wait! How is it that you and MW H aka/MM are in the same business? how did that happen that you were at the same conference? Holy Moley, I'd have liked to have seen your face when he told you who he was! Yeah, good question. This should be good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Yes I am a male. I am hetro but love to watch two women making out. What man doesn't? If they say no, then they are full of it. I like it when two women work on me too. I know alot of men like that. My MM does not to be honest with you. He doesn't like sharing neither does his wife. See. I want that human sandwich but I don't see it happening with them both plus...... I think they would be grossed out because they haven't had sex for quite some time together. Link to post Share on other sites
pythonshoes Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I'm sorry but I'm having a hard time comprehending your situation. Are you actually telling us that you're seeing both a man and woman and they are both married to each other? They both don't know you're seeing another person?? Wow. I thought I have read it all on this forum! Btw, you do know there isn't such a word as complexicated, right? Gee lyssa. I thought it was just because I was new posting that this was a joke. I've been around a while, just didn't need to post. (that's another story when I'm ready) Now since you've been here a while do you think it's real? I'm not as skeptical anymore because I thought about the office person that had a 3-way M I wrote in the other thread about . I get the feeling the poster's original language is not english. Link to post Share on other sites
bluebluesky Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I guess I'm a bit confused by your story also. I'm not quite sure I understand the timeline of events, who is seeing who, and who might be related. But I have to say that it does sound complicated. I would suggest to take a step back, clear your head, and try to pick one or the other. I've never seen a human sandwich. Maybe I just don't follow those circles. But it sounds like something you'd see more in a porn movie than real life. But I could be wrong. And I see that Troutie jr has been to this thread also. That guy really does make the rounds! I did think the licking the bowl comment was clever for it's culinary reference, but it may have been a bit off color. IMO. I guess you didn't seem to mind. Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 I know alot of men like that. My MM does not to be honest with you. He doesn't like sharing neither does his wife. See. I want that human sandwich but I don't see it happening with them both plus...... I think they would be grossed out because they haven't had sex for quite some time together. Maybe if your a part of it they will like each other again. You just might become the marriage mentor in the sex dept. Link to post Share on other sites
pythonshoes Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 I know alot of men like that. My MM does not to be honest with you. He doesn't like sharing neither does his wife. See. I want that human sandwich but I don't see it happening with them both plus...... I think they would be grossed out because they haven't had sex for quite some time together. Oh and you do know they haven't had sex because they both told you separately! Why, what's their problem? Which one cut it off first. Ughh, you said that you and MM didn't do anything for those first few days. Exactly when did you get together? Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Wait, wait! How is it that you and MW H aka/MM are in the same business? how did that happen that you were at the same conference? Holy Moley, I'd have liked to have seen your face when he told you who he was! You see, my father owns a business dealing with mugs for EPL. So when I said boss, I meant my father sent me to the convention. MM has an advertising company which ranges from designing to corporate communication. The convention is for all types of businesses. MW did not inform me she was married in the first place. She only sort of mentioned it after several batter system . I met her about 7 months ago and MM 4 months now. I tell you this, if my friend had been there when I found out that my MM and MW are married to each other, I would be the number one SHOCKED FACE on youtube! She would have the time to record my jaw-dropped, wide-eyed, pale face! Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Milx, I guess I'm a bit confused by your story also. I'm not quite sure I understand the timeline of events, who is seeing who, and who might be related. But I have to say that it does sound complicated. I would suggest to take a step back, clear your head, and try to pick one or the other. I've never seen a human sandwich. Maybe I just don't follow those circles. But it sounds like something you'd see more in a porn movie than real life. But I could be wrong. And I see that Troutie jr has been to this thread also. That guy really does make the rounds! I did think the licking the bowl comment was clever for it's culinary reference, but it may have been a bit off color. IMO. I guess you didn't seem to mind. Bluebluesky, let me put this easily for you. I tell you, it is complicated. I won't use complexicated as we have a spelling/grammar officer here on patrol. Me is seeing MW who is married to my MM. MW doesn't know I have a MM and MM does not know I am seeing a MW. Comprehende? Porn movie??? Bluebluesky girlie, this is no porn movie. I tell you, some people wish this is out of a hardcore porn movie but it is not! Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Maybe if your a part of it they will like each other again. You just might become the marriage mentor in the sex dept. I have asked MW if another person would help to spice up their sex life but she said, she can't even look at his naked anymore. Which is quite shocking. MM is very the gym person. Works out and has a body to be proud of. He reminds me of Patrick Nelson. Don't know if you have heard of him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milx Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Oh and you do know they haven't had sex because they both told you separately! Why, what's their problem? Which one cut it off first. Ughh, you said that you and MM didn't do anything for those first few days. Exactly when did you get together? They told me separately! MW is not so attracted to husband after he started working out. She feels threatened in some ways. That is something I don't quite understand. If she should feel threatened by, it should be me. . She told me that husband doesn't please her like he used to. She doesn't get wet even when they kissed. But when it comes to kissing me.... MW told me first. 3 weeks later, MM came clean about their sex life. His problem is that he kept initiating but wife doesn't give in. She did a few times in the beginning but always the missionary type, nothing else. I tell you, missionary is boring! It's crazy, when she is with me - she would try ANYTHING! I told her that it could be that she is more receptive towards women that is why she doesn't attracted to husband but she said no. She had had an affair with other man just before meeting me. After the convention, about 8 days later MM emailed me to ask how thinga are. If I wanted to meet up to talk about the proposal. I said ok as I do wanted to talk to him not only about the proposal but my father's company as well. So from lunch it turned into dinner and as they put, the rest is herstory. Link to post Share on other sites
bunset Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 I have asked MW if another person would help to spice up their sex life but she said, she can't even look at his naked anymore. Which is quite shocking. MM is very the gym person. Works out and has a body to be proud of. He reminds me of Patrick Nelson. Don't know if you have heard of him. OMG! This reminds me of what my xMM said about his first M. His W turned to OW and got a D! It shocked me, because I'm really hetero and found him really attractive. Plus he had a way of making up for, well , not being a woman for her! Hmmm, now I wonder if he went after OW so he could assure his 'masculinity'! If MM hasn't gotten any, maybe he's worried about his manhood! Link to post Share on other sites
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