Thompsonwill Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Well, the title says everything. I'm married, for a year now, but with her for about 8. But for some months now, i'm very with a strong desire with my sister in law. I don't know how strange this could be. I do not have a affair with her. Just the desire. And i dont know how to take this off my head. She's pretty and hot. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Oh dude, you need to be sure that you are never alone with your sister-in-law and forget this fantasy. Don't be thinking that you can ever have an affair or leave your wife for - is it her sister? Because, this won't end well for you if you ever were to act on this feeling... It's called, self control. You need to practice it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thompsonwill Posted November 12, 2017 Author Share Posted November 12, 2017 Oh dude, you need to be sure that you are never alone with your sister-in-law and forget this fantasy. Don't be thinking that you can ever have an affair or leave your wife for - is it her sister? Because, this won't end well for you if you ever were to act on this feeling... It's called, self control. You need to practice it. Yes, its her sister. I'm trying to forget, but now it's months, not days anymore, and is still very hard Link to post Share on other sites
jjgitties Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Well, the title says everything. I'm married, for a year now, but with her for about 8. But for some months now, i'm very with a strong desire with my sister in law. I don't know how strange this could be. I do not have a affair with her. Just the desire. And i dont know how to take this off my head. She's pretty and hot. That is messed up. Stop thinking about having sex with your sister in law. You will really piss off your wife if she finds out. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 That is messed up. Stop thinking about having sex with your sister in law. You will really piss off your wife if she finds out. Yup. My BIL hit on me several years ago. Twice. He stopped when I told him one more time and I'd tell my sis. He never did it again. But 2 years ago, when my ex-husband was mad at ME, he told HER, and YEAH, she was pissed!!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jjgitties Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Yup. My BIL hit on me several years ago. Twice. He stopped when I told him one more time and I'd tell my sis. He never did it again. But 2 years ago, when my ex-husband was mad at ME, he told HER, and YEAH, she was pissed!!!! That's messed up as well. I completely fail to be able to mentally comprehend how someone could actually hit on an in law in real life or develop a long term sexual interest in an in-law. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Yes, its her sister. I'm trying to forget, but now it's months, not days anymore, and is still very hard If you are a mature adult, you have the ability to consider the consequences of your actions and make a responsible decision. The responsible decision in this situation is to say to yourself, "This woman is my wife's sister, and thus... absolutely off limits to me." Full stop. In more simple terms, you need to think with your big brain, and not your little brain... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 What changed in your relationship with your SIL to cause this? By your post, this has just recently become an issue. What started it? Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 Hi Thompson if this is a very real problem for you then get yourself to IC and address the problem. If you do not want to do that then divorce your wife, allow some time and then woo her sister if she will even entertain you. If not then disappear from their lives. Best wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
FastHands Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 Imho I think if you go through with it then your marriage is pretty much over. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Did you ever stop tickling your sister in law's feet? Link to post Share on other sites
Cullenbohannon Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 Your wife should slap you. i hope thats ok to say Link to post Share on other sites
JuneL Posted November 14, 2017 Share Posted November 14, 2017 This is beyond creepy Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thompsonwill Posted November 14, 2017 Author Share Posted November 14, 2017 Imho I think if you go through with it then your marriage is pretty much over. I dont want to do nothing, i think is some kind of attraction, and i think it will pass. Link to post Share on other sites
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