15yearsin Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 (edited) What does true love look like & mean to you as a woman or man? Do you believe true love exists? I as a woman I thought true love meant you found the one person that made you forsake all others and even included not lusting or looking at another man or woman in a sexual way ever again. I believed that you don't get married or commit to another unless you were truly at a point that you could avert your eyes against all others no matter how handsome or beautiful a man or woman was. It's kind of like a radar for the opposite sex that you keep turned on while you are searching for that true love and then once you find it, you permanently turn that radar off in real life. This is for everyday real life encounters not fantasies on movies, tv or porn. But real life. I know the old saying that men are hunters and women are nesters, but is it possible for men to never look at another women's breasts or beauty while in the presence of his "true love" or is this to much to expect from men? If you are a big breast man, what would make you settle down with a small breasted woman but then lust for bigger breasts and not want your "true love" to get implants? Edited June 27, 2014 by 15yearsin 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 Aww... that's sweet to think that true love will blind a wandering eye. True love = Loyalty I believe that true love is sacrificing your needs for a loved one's happiness, and being there for your loved one at any given time. Of course, without said, that it won't be true love if you have someone else on your mind, so fidelity is a given. I do believe it exist. But since we're all humans and born with flaws, no love is perfect. Yet true love is unconditional. In order to receive true love, one must be able to give the same. Link to post Share on other sites
redtail Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I do believe that true love exists, I also believe that each individual and couple defines that for themselves, there's not a preconceived formula. What may pass for true love and work for one couple may not fit within the parameters of true love for another. This is where compatibility comes in. Your question about breasts is interesting because for me, I fell in love with a woman with breasts, not the other way around. I wouldn't want her to change herself physically to please me, she pleases me with who she is. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
oldshirt Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 What does true love look like & mean to you as a woman or man? Do you believe true love exists? I as a woman I thought true love meant you found the one person that made you forsake all others and even included not lusting or looking at another man or woman in a sexual way ever again. I believed that you don't get married or commit to another unless you were truly at a point that you could avert your eyes against all others no matter how handsome or beautiful a man or woman was. It's kind of like a radar for the opposite sex that you keep turned on while you are searching for that true love and then once you find it, you permanently turn that radar off in real life. This is for everyday real life encounters not fantasies on movies, tv or porn. But real life. I know the old saying that men are hunters and women are nesters, but is it possible for men to never look at another women's breasts or beauty while in the presence of his "true love" or is this to much to expect from men? If you are a big breast man, what would make you settle down with a small breasted woman but then lust for bigger breasts and not want your "true love" to get implants? You are confusing love with exclusivity. Love is a feeling. It waxes and wanes, comes and goes with the moods and feelings throughout the day. Exclusivity is a behavior. It is a conscious choice. It is choosing to not do things with others even though you may feel like you want to. Love does not make you not have feelings or attractions or desires for others. It makes you choose not to act on those feelings. Boobs have nothing to do with it. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
WasOtherWoman Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I don't think that true love has anything to do with a wandering eye.... I certainly expect that my husband nor I disrespect each other, ourselves or anyone by "ogling" someone. But, hey, who does not sneak a peak at a spectacular looking person? I love my husband, but that does not mean that if a really good looking someone walked by, I might not discreetly look. I truly think the two have nothing to do with each other. Link to post Share on other sites
JitteryCoffeeBean Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 Yes, there's true love. Remaining loyal to one person for your entire life is beautiful. It happens. It's rare this day and age, but it happens. However - it's human nature to look! It's healthy. There's nothing wrong with appreciating another human beings looks. You can be happily married and still look. I catch my husband sometimes and he catches me but we don't feel betrayed in any way. Though ogling at someone else in front of each other is disrespectful and we don't make comments. The two are unrelated. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
greenbee81 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I don't fully believe in true love, as humans are NOT a monogamous species, though we try. Though I'm sure there are people out there who will match you very well. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 (edited) true love is rare and beautiful elusive and haunting, its in the eyes of the man who holds his wifes hand, as she combs her hair with her free hand and radiation takes it into her brush, its in the eyes of a woman who holds a mans hands, when his eyes no longer can see into hers, true love is there when all the beauty has faded and the limbs are weak , and the hair is gone bar faded photographs of smiling young lovers, and the faces are wrinkled and the backs are sore, and the wheelchairs sit in the corner of the room, its in saying good bye and knowing and praying you get to say hello again, you cant imagine not gettign to say hello, so you draw goodbye out with just one more kiss a peck, that turns into ten soft kisses..... its when the world is cold and no one understands and you look into the eyes of your lover, adn tomorrow is a day you look forward to sharing no matter the cold or the heat or the pain you will face,.... its in wistful young eyes who recognise true love, eyes that are spying an old couple shopping for meat together as people rush about not even noticing them they hold hands and waddle to the counter like penguins , as people brush past them rushing on their day , they stand still in the middle and see each other and no one else matters.... its for when beauty isnt in the eye of the beholder anymore but in their hearts true love shines through if you get the chance to see true love you will always know true love is elusive haunting beautiful .....deb Edited June 27, 2014 by todreaminblue Link to post Share on other sites
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