So i finished my LDR, i moved to another country but my problem doesnt end . Or maybe i should say it keep on comming.
My man and me have gone such a long way to be together, tons of paperwork and tons of emotional roller coaster after every airports goodbyes. I was so glad it is finally over...
As i have been in Germany for around 3 months now, first month spent to go around offices to get paperwork done and prepared for the wedding. Then i need to wait more than a month and a haft to get my legal paper to stay and to work/study.
So until i have been stuck at home for around 3 months now, i have been doing basically NOTHING, except for having driving school and learn german.... My german isnt proficient yet but i get by if the local have mercy on me...
I am currently looking for some kind of job to get me out of the house, and to be able to earn and not feeling like a complete failure. But its a daunting aspect, without proper Ausbildung i dont stand a chance even to work at the supermarket.... I dont live in a big city so i dont have that much other options.
Since we are living on 1 source of income, everything need to be calculated, especially when we need a new car soon.
One good thing is our relationship is good, but i dont want to be a burden any longer.
I dont know what advice i am seeking but i feel like i got a ton of rocks on my shoulders and have no freaking clue how to get it off. Have anyone successfully moving to another completely foreign country and manage to pull it off? Im completely lost
Any thoughts, experience would be really appreaciated.